Met a girl in the gym, noticed her smiling at me. Ask her Name, When She Joined Etc.. Beginning of Convo was un-relaxed at first, but as the convo progressed a bit more it became more fluid, and interesting, had her laughing for the last ten minutes. Pushed a bit, Pulled a bit. Number Closed. Took about 15 mins total. I told her i had to go......

Im 21, Shes 19.

2 hours later i texted her,

Me- Nice Meeting you today, i was wondering if you would like to meet up at that cafe tomorrow at the corner of the block after class.(She lived close to Gym) Just dont wear your workout clothes haha.

Seven- Lol im in school late tomorrow.

Me- Oh well, That Fine.

Seven- Sorry

Me- Haha, No biggie i thought you were kinda cute in your own little way. Whens the next time you have to have some fun?

Seven- Honestly only after finals. I can have fun

Me- I was the same way at 19. Good Luck On ur Finals.

Seven- Thank You

You went wrong when you continued the convo after she said she couldn't. If a girl is interested but is busy on the day you suggest, then she will suggest another day. If she doesn't then she isn't interested.

When she said she couldn't your only reply should have been "OK" and left it at that. I posted something about this already. You should check it out.

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Also, if she has time to go to the gym, she has time to meet up for a coffee...

Texting two hours after you get a number says, "I'm needy. I have no other options. Please please please go out with me.". Get the number and disappear for awhile. I mean days. Disappear for a week even. If a girl has high or sexual interest she'll go out with you even after a week. You're rushing things because of your high interest.

Thumper is right with both his points. She made no counter offer for another day for you guys to meet for a coffee date. That means you're done. Also, it only takes 30 minutes to get a cup of coffee and get to know each other and continue the initial 'interview' stage. Girls will drop everything if they like you.

Your texts sound like you're a 'nice guy'. Time to move on and brush up on your skills.