1st post ever here! but longtime reader. Figure this would be a (somewhat) orignal inquiry for the experts here. Recently i have acquired a new babysitter for my daughter who is indeed a strong 9 (the babysitter not my daughter haha! edit!). This girl is a cousin of my ex wife's and was called upon as a last minute replacement for a babysitter that was needed since my old one is moving away.

a little backstory:
12 years ago when i was still with my wife and a young strapping 21 yr old buck, she (the new babysitter) had a major crush on me. Now albeit the girl was only 11 or 12 at the time, it meant nothing to me then obviously. She is now 22/23 - ish and is a fully blossomed round assed, big tittied and (rumored to be) horny young woman who just broke up with her 'long distance' boyfriend. Did i mention she is a 9????

Now since she was 12 i hadnt seen her around much just a few times here and there and the last time i did for any extended period was at a party with my then wife about 4 years ago. 4 years ago i was about 50 lbs heavier and had long messy hair (the married and given up on social life look haha!)

Nowadays in full PUA mode i am pretty much in 21 yr old strapping young buck shape and appearance again. So the last time she's seen me I was the sloppy fat mess marriage had made me into. So when she see's me again (she starts on Monday) i will be in shape and attractive again.

A few things concern and excite me at the same time. First there is of course the fact that she is my ex-wife's cousin. However that shows 1) Preselection. Her babysitting my daughter will be easy for me to show that i am 2)Protector of loved ones; the fact that I am her 'boss' in a sense can show 3) Leadership of Men. and 4)The Willingness to Emote is never a problem as long as your doing everything else right.

Also i dont know how strong her 12 yr old crush on me 12 years ago is much of a factor, but id love insight on that from some experts here as far as if that has any validity in my Game to her today. I'm sure it does somehow.

This is an original situation because it is not at a club, or out on the street. This is me coming home from work and socializing with her before she goes home for the day (so obviously everyday she is there will be an opportunity to kick game)

I am really weary about doing typical PUA club routines with someone i essentially have a business/family (in law) relationship with, however i know something will have to be worked in. (i saw on her Facebook page she wears multiple rings. So ring routine will be a given)

My question is how do i need to alter and or change my game to ger her attracted to me and fully seduced???? I feel like the 4 attraction switches can easily be flipped here because of the situation, but i cant help but feel it needs to be done a little more creatively given the special circumstance here.

This coming monday will be her first day so i want to get some ducks in a row b4 her first day.

a few other tidbits about everything:
1) i offered for her to actually watch my daughter at her Grandma's house because it's closer to her house yet she pretty much insisted she come here to my house! (could be nothing but i thought it as a possible ioi)
2) she is a pretty insecure girl. She p[uts alot of emphasis on her looks and absolutely loves and CRAVES attention from guys.
3)very pretty and she knows it. alot of other girls dont like her. She;s the kind of girl who other girls dont like and she is proud to say she doesnt get along with other girls.
4)just broke up with a guy she moved out of state to be with. Now they are broken up and she's back at home with mommy and daddy looking for a job and thats when i basically came in cuz i needed a sitter
5)she's definately had the reputation of being 'slutty'. i would hear stuff about her from my wife as the years would go by & she'd get older
6)i get the feeling also too and have also heard that she likes to 'tease' guys alot something any pua wants no part of obviously!


...from what i know of her and from stories I hear thats her in a nutshell.

i need the experts or anyone for that matter to help me devise some good Game for this special situation. Feel free to ask anymore questions needed to get a clearer picture of everything.

Thanks bro's i look forward to your expertise here.

Well your thread title was utterly disturbing i wanted to firstly point out ^^

As for your situation, i would advise using a natural/stealthier/subtler game approach rather than canned, also you do have the problem of being isolated too early, she may not feel comfortable with too much escalation in such a private place as a home with just the two of you. If she is your ex's cousin you will also really need to bring your a game and build comfort otherwise she may see this as a betrayal or her cousin, so thats gonna be one of your biggest hurdle. And lastly you need to make sure you escalate and sexually frame alot if she is as much of an attention seeker/validator otherwise she will take you for a ride, enjoy the light sexual attention, get her kicks and then LJBF you.

"lastly you need to make sure you escalate and sexually frame alot"

this is what i need help with. Framing is still fuzzy to me but i see how it can be worked into this situation. Any help or suggestions with framing will help. I plan to neg/tease alot at first since i find it works well with girls like her and it will 'break the ice' of not seeing her in awhile and all of a sudden seeing her all the time now.

Also if anyone has a link to something that goes into the abc's of framing that'd be awesome. Out of all the stuff on the web about pua, finding stuff about framing i some of the most elusive info out there.

any suggestions for sexual framing in this situation would b e appreciated. thnx.

The simple truth, get her addicted to you. Push pull works wonders here, but you've got to set things up right first.

Build rapport and light comfort. Be charming and funny. Naturally cut her off in the middle of enjoying your company. Cocky/Funny would probably work here.

I've not practiced much PUA in the past few months, but there's one woman I use it on without thinking. She reminds me of your situation. Very aware of her attractiveness and thinks she can have any man she wants. I got her to throw up her defenses when I casually suggested taking her out for drinks for her b-day or Christmas and she quickly made sure it wasn't a date. I jumped in and made her feel foolish for suggesting that. Then my joke every time anything might even slightly be construed as me hitting on her.

I tease her regularly, she's short, she's accusing me of hitting on her...etc. Recently she's opened up A LOT. I've made more progress with her in a few months of casual encounters than her AFC long term crush has in 3-4 years (poor guy has NO clue).

Good luck, but remember that the sweetest looking fruit may be rotten. Pick your targets wisely...

Dont shit where you eat :/
Or is it dont eat here you shit?
Either way mate, you get the idea