For me its inner game of being comfortable in a wide range of situations -- the real, effortful kind and not saying I'm awesome over and over again.

The reason for this is that I'm already good at the conversation aspects of socializing; however, for a while I was limited by many insecurities and judgement that limited how enjoyable I was to be around.

It ultimately affects the way the person perceives the interaction for the better. It's not something most people recognize consciously, but we all have experienced hanging out with people who are at ease vs those who are anxious.

It seems the better my inner game gets, the more I differentiate from those who can converse just as well, but aren't as enjoyable to be around.

But ultimately this is going to depend on your goals. If I was trying to meet people and have sex in the same night, this wouldn't be nearly as helpful.

the fundament of game for me is how I feel. Comfortable and confident everything else comes easy once your inner game is perfect.

Blame yourself if thing don't work out. That way its your actions that control your world and you can improve your life

But without the sexual mindset, that's pretty much where it ends-- friends that do friendly stuff together.

id say my body language is the most important part. i focus alot on my voice tonality, position of my legs and hands, eye contact and eliminating nervous mannerisms because i feel it instantly builds rapport. it doesnt matter how shitty or pointless your conversation is because if you have very STRONG MASCULINE body language she will perceive that you are a strong individual and she will be attracted to this.

i truly believe that its not what you say but how you say it and a large part of this is how your body language is delivered. i find that if my body language is strong then the rest of my interaction will be strong too. my kino will be delivered without hesitation, my sexual conversation will be completely unapologetic and my control of the conversation will come much more naturaly.

strength > witt, humor, money, scripted game

It's been my experience that all these things are extremely interrelated -- the outer/inner game dualism is just as silly as the Descartian Dualism. I've also found that inner game things are all related. . . while people seem to think you take a pill for a back ache and another pill for a diabetes, I have found losing weight makes both of these go away. Being comfortable, judging, nerves, and every other thing you'd want to fix come from very few sources.

The way to improve all this stuff is just stop doing it. My inner game thread goes into more detail, but if you want to stop thinking negative thoughts, stop verbalizing negative thoughts. If you want to be more comfortable, display the body language necessary and don't try to hide your feeling of discomfort from yourself. All these are the basic changes that all psychiatrists recommend, and it's also extremely similar to what religions who focus on achieving higher mental planes have discovered: exercising, meditation, diet, not doing certain behaviors, forcing yourself to do other behaviors, going outside comfort zones, etc.

It's pretty simple and can be tailored to individual needs. But it's not easy, it takes a lot of effort and dedication. As a result, people would rather watch 20 hour documentaries to pick up a few more cognitions that may help a little, instead of spending 20 hours doing the simple, but hard stuff that works.

And in conclusion, I've also found people say they want to change but they really don't. There was an interesting study where people said "I want to be less rigid" but they never succeed, because they associated rigidity with structure (a positive trait). Take a look on this forum, I just had one of these conversations in the relationship section. People cling to their maladaptive world views because they associate it with positive things, even when they probably realize it wasn't the best world view. Just because something works doesn't mean its optimal, nor the most enjoyable, nor the one that makes you the most at ease/happy.

Example:
I will continue to be a douche bag because it's gotten me girls in the past! Do I like being a douche bag? No. Am I going to try to change that? Yes. Will it work? No, because I believe that has what has worked for me thus far.

You can see your excuses, bad behaviors, bad mindsets in all the posts on this forum. When you spot them in someone else, think to yourself what would I suggest that guy to do? Then do it. Being honest with yourself is the key to it all.

My inner game thread goes into more detail,

Its funny you should say that but i don't think Ive ever understood what anyone ever meant by 'good body language' apart from hands in pocket, facing people/facing away, feet wide apart and not fidgeting. Not disagreeing, i just thought that was funny on my part

INTENT

Intent is the key.

Intent sets the frame. Intent ensures good body language. Intent makes eye contact, kino, and harmless banter SEXUAL. Intent provides the driving force behind the interaction, meaning you can be authentic, and never worry what the "right thing to say" is. Intent shows you are unapologetic, that you know what you want and you go for it - intent is ALPHA.

Intent is everything.

Do you mean intent as in verbalising it or using your intent(ions) to fuel your interaction, from its emotions?

INTENT

Intent is the key.

Intent sets the frame. - intent is ALPHA.

Intent is everything.

INTENT

Intent is the key.

Intent sets the frame. Intent ensures good body language. Intent makes eye contact, kino, and harmless banter SEXUAL. Intent provides the driving force behind the interaction, meaning you can be authentic, and never worry what the "right thing to say" is. Intent shows you are unapologetic, that you know what you want and you go for it - intent is ALPHA.

Intent is everything.

Edit: A vid about intent http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ui39qjO6buM