Its her birthday soon, and I still haven't kissed her yet, so I was planning to do it then. When I give her present to her (its only something small,) I was going to say something along the lines of "I almost forgot, there's a part 2 to your bday present, close your eyes for 1 sec because I forgot to wrap it" and kiss her then.

What do you think of this idea? Any improvements/suggestions?

Second question: Should a first kiss in a relationship happen in a tacky classroom? (no one will be around of course) It just feels wrong to me thinking about it. She isn't open to wagging (skipping/cutting class, whatever you call it) so it has to happen at school. Any suggestions?

You said it.

How did you get into a relationship in the first place if you had never kissed her?

Just do it mate, it's only a kiss, we aren't talking about hardcore anal sex!

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It sounds like a good plan. It doesn't matter it's in school, you'll do just fine!

@Bodega, watch your language infront of kids

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I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

Sorry Mum!

Back the original question though, usually when you give someone a gift they'll say "oh, you shouldn't have!" or something similar.. therefore i'd personally try and say "but i wanted to, you mean a lot to me." and then go for the kiss, that way you 'woo' her, and it'll be special regardless of where you are.

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In the long run there's not really an non-tacky place to have your first kiss. But that doesn't matter, because it's a myth that it matters so much. Especially if you're already in a relationship.

What's wrong with 'Hi *kiss*. Happy birthday'? She's your girlfriend.

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If she's your girlfriend why can't you see her outside of school hours?

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my advice if you are really into each other, do it in a very public place

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Hey guys thanks for the replies/advice. I'm on my iPhone now so I can't quote, but I'll answer your questions anyway.

@bodega: How I got into a relationship with this girl is a long story, but was just around the time when I started learning about PUA. Also I like your suggestion better than mine.

@txacoli: cheap shot there calling me a kid. But after reading my own question I feel like such an AFC so I deserved that one xD

@sixpounder: I can't see her everyday because her parents don't approve of my nationality (another long story, I'll save it for another time) However that suits me just fine because I've got exams to study for.

@draconobilus: I'd prefer not to do it in a public place with everyone around. That can come later.

Anyway thanks again for the replies guys. I appreciate it.

A+ will read again

I didn't mean to offend you, but you seem like a decent kid with a normal question for your age, I assumed your age was between 14 and 16 since you're in high school. I don't think things like hardcore anal sex should be discussed with kids that young, that's all. Sorry if my assumption was wrong, you didn't sound like an AFC and I wasn't implying that. Good luck, anyways!

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

I wasn't discussing it, I was trying to make a joke saying we weren't talking about it. To be fair if you're going to come on a pick-up forum you have to expect to see 'distasteful' stuff in my opinion. I still love you Txacoli

Anyway, moving on swiftly, has it been her birthday yet? If so, how did it go? If not, what are you getting her?

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Behind the lady who dances and the man who madly drinks, i'll show you the truth about love.

I know Bodega, I still love you too I thought my comment was funny as well, but I guess it wasn't

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

haha relax guys I found both your comments hilarious.
Hardcore anal sex doesn't bother me - (just a bit over that age limit you had there txacoli) but yeah her bday's next week sometime, I'll keep you posted.

Excellent, when are we meeting up then babycakes? ahaha i'm sorry, I had to!

Yeah do keep us updated. But I promise you have nothing to worry about, i'm sure she's praying that you make a move!

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One of my favorites is, when she's talking about something, just be like: "Shhhh, shutup", put your finger infront of her mouth, you know the shutup sign and then use the hand to close her eyes and go in for the kiss, melts them like butter, and then when you finish you can be like:"So you were saying?"