hey guys, well I really need some help to get back a girl I want like crazy...
First let me introduce the context: about a month ago at one of our wild student parties
here in Belgium I made-out with a stunningly beautiful and tall girl, I had made out with two other girls before but in this case it was super passionate, I had a mega boner and a premature ejaculation, I believe she also had some sort of "orgasm" and was aroused like you can't believe she really looked like a junkie that needed her fix (I suspect being so beautiful and so tall, very few guys have the balls to approach her), it was sooo hot that the "public" in this chaotic venu was chanting in french "sors avec, sors avec" which means "date her, date her", I dominated her, played with her tits (discreetly) at the venue and stuff but it was impossible to isolate her, well at least she gave me her phone number and a couple days later I reinitiated contact even though I don't believe much in lasting NPU, and surprisingly she answered, we exchanged a few messages until she went on a trip to Paris april 19 I said in the last message "I will call you next monday" which I didn't do,then we lost touch, I had already almost forgotten her until well last week april 30 at night I got an SMS from
Her :"No more news, I admit I don't give any either . But if you agreed I'd like us to see one another again."
I exploded in joy I admit, I answered her the next day
Me:" Hello ***** It's a good idea I'm taken the whole week.
Let's do the following : let's meet at **** (my Uni, she's in another) friday
or saturday, it's gonna be great, tell me if you got another idea."
Her:"That's ok with me, I'll just see the day that's better for me. Are you from Brussels
or not ? I wanted to know a bit more about you, so I searched you on facebook
but without your surname it's tough "
Me:"I live in Brussels near ****( my Uni), my facebook is **** *****, add-me as a friend then. Let's keep in touch by phone or facebook then till the end of the week"

Well she added me on facebook five minutes after that, but I accepted her only the
next day after having posted my best pic as profile picture (a picture so cool that
some of my friends commented "so handsome", it all seemed great I was full of joy
and optimism, but then no news from her, so on friday afternoon I initiated a
facebook chat with "Hello how are you doing ?", no answer, then I sent an SMS
"Hi ****, about tomorrow just inform me early enough, cuz I got lots of stuff to do,
the end is near (I mean the end of the schoolterm)", still nothing, I then saw
on her facebook wall that she was apparently at a friend's place (a girl) the post
was "Forgot to close facebook at ******'s ".
I was getting more and more disappointed and sad, so yesterday saturday I
crumbled and reinitiated the chat once again (it was odd she was connected for
only very short periods of time, might be that it actually automatic and she wasn't
on facebook after all ?) I said
Me: "Well I won't have my phone for the next few hours so I'm only reachable
through facebook, see you soon:)", well no answer once again...
Well not answering facebook is excusable, but that she ignored my text is not, well I
removed her (in anger) from my facebook friends sunday afternoon, I don't
wanna obsess over her even though I admit it's very, very painful. I know it was a dumb move but...
And what do you think the hell happened ? Could it have been my wing who's betrayed me ?
Cuz he knew about the whole story but had never seen her only heard a description and he asked me on facebook "is ***** ****** your oneitis ?",
Me:"Yes how do you know ?"

He: "Tall, brunette" (even though on her profile picture you only see her face, not that she's tall if you're not her friend)

Please guys help me, how could I salvage it ? Shouldn't I have CALLED her directly as some guys suggested after receiving her texts to reinitiate more a more personal contact ? Hell we saw each other a month ago !
She's really important for me ! We could be a very beautiful couple, we're both tall and at last I could look a girl in the eyes and we have some connection after our passionate makeout (not mechanical but passionate). Or was possibly something wrong on my facebook that turned her-off (but I dont know what) ?

Please I need your help friends !!

PS: I had already posted it in the closing, Day 2 section but I was told it was the wrong part.

You hurt your game if not killed it by deleting her in haste as a friend on Facebook. Terrible move.

Read your post again. It wreaks of desperation. You're pussy-whipped on a girl you barely even know and haven't even had sex with. You're talking about what a great couple you would be and you're hardly even in the door.

You were right. You should have called her directly and asked her out on a date. So, you get that part.

I'm sure many will disagree and I'll continue to say it on this forum, but Facebook and texting will ruin your chances more than it will help. It's too easy for girls to blow you off. I feel like at least you could get face time if you don't dither around texting, emailing, Facebooking, wasting time, etc. and make the call. Its harder for some girls to blow you off on a phone call than it is in a text. So, in theory you might get a date even if she's reluctant. If you have drinks and you make the right moves she might see you in a different light. I think a lot of people agree that girls make the decision if they're going to have sex with you in the first five minutes. I realize that this is contradictory to this theory, but it's your call. You did make out with her already, so that is a good thing. Was she drunk? You have to ask yourself these things.

I take a totally different approach to these types of things, and everybody has their own brand of game.