I tend to bring a conversation real sexual pretty quickly. I believe Mystery says to hurry up with setting the sexual frame. Well I do. Somewhat bold too.

Sometimes I get the response,

"You're so silly!"

What does that mean? In the past, I've both pushed past it as well as went the other way and backed off.

Each of those methods has worked (If I can remember correctly).

What does she mean when she says this?

Do you push past it or do you tone it down??

She's not taking you seriously because you're not framing it correctly. If you make yourself horny, look her seductively in the eyes and talk with a lower, deep voice as if you want to fuck her this very instant - you're doing it correctly.

Well alot of the time it will be in a situation where the girl has to be in my presence for a while whether she likes it or not. It seems like she's just saying i'm silly so she can feel as least uncomfortable as possible because she might not find me attractive. Kinda like, haha nice joke! Then she'll hope that the convo never comes back to a sexual frame again because she doesn't find me sexually attractive.

Couldn't that be how she's thinking?


What about sexual frames over the phone or in text when you can't do any F2F tactics?

Anybody??

depends how she says it, if shes serious then something should be wrong
if shes smiling and touching her hair then she likes it and doesnt know what to say

Yea it usually seems like they're serious and I was friend-zoned before I ever even said the first word (due to dating someone else, my looks, etc...).

You're right PVD. She's not interested and she finds your comments/sexual frame uncomfortable so she passes it off as a joke in hopes that you wont do it again. The key to the sexual frame is when you first meet someone, you need spark that attraction then slow down your body language, voice, and make prolonged eye contact in order to escalate properly

There is also time, when she feels the sexual tension heavily in the air, she will attempt to throw something like that or a shit test in order to break tension.
Girls do that all the time, especially using that line "You're so silly" or "You're so bad". It's important to not do what she wants and lessen the tension for her.
60 stuffs is pretty good for these kind of things, the best way is keep eye contact, give her a smirk. Don't say anything, let the tension build even more, if she starts to make excuse to break it such as phone, bathroom, etc, don't sweat it. You're the winner, she breaks tension first, she's the one that is qualifying to you.
You can also tell by her body languages when she says it.
If she shows IOIs or opened body language while saying it, chance is she's already thinking about you doing her in her mind, she just doesnt know how to handle all that sexual tension.
Now if she says it with closed body language, chance is you didn't build enough attraction and this heavy sexual tension is making her uncomfortable.
Hope that helps.

you're so silly means you are so unpredictable aka you are fun in some way.....
just accept her comment and act like she gave you a compliment.
or you can say she makes you silly ....

i think you guys are over-analyzing, alot of girls told me im silly and weird ... it's just cool , i know i can be a weirdass sometimes and i own my weirdness.

better to be called silly instead of boring and chode ... right ?

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Van Dyke: can you let me know what your frames were?? im still learning about frames and need some examples thanks.