2nd Night: Club Sevilla
So here I will talk about a pretty cool night. Hopefully I can write a better report than last time. The venue is called Sevilla and its not the best club per se but definitely the best in my area so Ive hit it up more since. I personally need Club game because so much of my nightlife has been spent at raves and alternative spots. These places are just TOO easy to close. Now here is a place thats more like I guess mainstream they play Top 40 all hip hop so must of the cats that go here are black. It has a restaurant in the same building and when you get out homemade tacos are right there. Two storys with the upper one being a room you can smoke in and thats it. But the girls here are definitely harder to game evn the ugly ones because they just think that they are the shit. Their out to meet people but only real cool "exclusive" people because thats how they view themeselves. Totally different from the insecure and usually loaded on x raver chicks. So even though its been a while since this particular night happenned (Ive been much too busy to go on here and actually write lol) I will try to remember it to the best of my ability.

Again I meet up with Lionheart 213 but my best wingman tonight was the girls who I hung out with earlier in Downtown. One of them is real cool were starting a band together and the last time I met her we had a fun time in her closet. She brings a friend who all night is sad as hell because her boyfriend just took a Greyhound to nor Cal and he doesn't have a cell phone. So while me and Grace this cool chick are connecting all night this chick Sam just keeps crying about her boyfriend. Were all chilling in a coffe shop in downtown and I decide the best thing to do is game her lol. I run the cube on her EV all that good shit and kinda show her some things shes never seen before. Shes giving me IOIs and I basically use this as a sign that shell be cool with me taking Grace to talk real quick. So im finally able to pull Grace outside and we have a fantastic make-out session on the third floor with a great view. We then meet up with sammie and go downstairs into the basement to see this free show. Me and Grace talk about how we want our sound to be and the show is great. Basically just real easy stuff which put me in a position of feeling realy alpha and warmed up for the party chicks we were about to game in the club.

After I meet up with Lionheart 213 we drop in. At first there is a problem because im wearing shorts but luckily I have a pair of dickies that I use as work pants in my trunk and thats OK with the guy at the door. As for me I feel a little uneasy about it because the shorts were really rocker hot and peacocky which I like and these pants are just ugly baggy black pants not my style at all. Luckily im wearing my Lucky sweater a red Budweiser sweater I picked up at Urban Outfitters. Its just sick and it shows to the girls I know how to have a good time. Its nice fitting im skinny and its a small so it wraps around me well. It also gets me girls as so many girls open me about my sweater =] I end up having a great night in this club but I was wondering if you guys can elabarote on some mistakes that I think I made.

Here was my basic strategy.
1. Be a sex god. I would kinda look girls in the eye and just give them that look that I can do so much for them yet at the same time I dont care about them they have to earn it. Come off really cocky yet fun talk about sex like its nothing and whenever I went into the bathroom I would just look at myself and imagine myself as a celeberity lol. But I thought at times I was psyching myself out and lots of girls actually thought I was giving off the player "vibe" I could tell by the looks on their faces. So I guess im just calibrating trying to find the right level of game for each girl.

2. Pay attention to the little things. I would look at the micro movements of the females facial expression to really tell how she was feeling. To me girls fake their expressions a lot and thats something that I HATE. I really just feel more comforatable if I have some idea of how shes really responding to me. As a performer kind of guy I instantly see what gives off a reaction and what doesnt. So the moment I found a spot where Id like her to be id try to find out how to get her feeling that. This worked well but its hard to keep up as sometimes my mind would literally drift away and I would pay attention to things I didnt want to. Also sometimes I would make the mistake of guessing her feelings wrong and miscalibrating which I guess is only something I can correct with experience but any ideas? I know the DDB look and all the other signals like her grooming herself but there has to be a lot more im missing im sure.?

3. Really feel the vibe. In my mind everything I did was to add value to the club. Now I know I might be going on saying things that are already known but sometimes I get in a mood where this is really hard to do. i basically add too much value sometimes, something bad happens I get in a bad mood then start being value seeking. This is something im aware of but at the same time my mind is racing im feeling anxiety adhd and depression symptoms as well as feelings of mad social inadequecy so this is very hard to fix. when I get in this "mood" it really sucks lol can anybody can help me out nobody on this forum has been able to yet. Anyways this night I was trying to fix it by being "cool" and calm but also the life of the party with my value giving. So basically balancing it out. Walking around this very small club I must have danced with at least every girl there. Hi fived just about everybody too. Got a lot of guys coming at me too for some reason. Some guy asked me for my number in the bathroom I was feeling too nice to reject him lol.

As far as an actual report of what happenned this is what I remember. Number closed really hot white girl in like 2 mins she just came up to me and started dancing grinding and after I called her some funny names just smiling laughing. Turns out her name is Chloe as soon as I get her number she runs away with a friend and I never see her again. Then a lot of the same but with a few black chicks who were suprised that a total white boy like me ( Im mixed but thats beside the point) could handle their moves. Im not the best dancer but all night I have FUN and raise the value of the place as much as I can. A lot of eyes are on me. Halfway into the night a cool looking white HB7 approaches ( most of the girls came to me this night) and talks about my sweater. Im dancing with her and suddenly this angry lookin HB 8 Asian comes and gives her a dirty look. I totally disarm the HB 8 Asian and somehow im in between them with both of them dirty dancing on me pretty hard. I isolate the asian, taking her upstairs to talk.

Upstairs the set does get harder there are a few awkward pauses as I dont know what to say at points becuz iv'e basically been doing dancefloor game this whole time and not really talking. But body language is more important and my smile and body were hard as a rock. All I really need to do if I run out of things to say spontaneously is just jump into a routine which I HATE becuz I can never remember the damn routines. But tonight all is good. I find out her name, Christina, I EV her and do her cube, and find out this HB attitude shes giving off is totally fake. In reality shes actually a semi party girl but also kind of a geek. She watches a lot of movies. Sci Fi is her favorite. On her phone are pictures of all these lightsabers and star wars toys she owns and we connect like MAD becuz star wars is one of my favorite movies. All is going well and we go back downstairs and just start making out on the dancefloor. Now everything is in my favor. I SWERR the rest of the night she would not leave my side she would hold onto my hand and just really not let me go. But heres where I make a mistake. Im actually feeling her too. I may have start letting her get the best of me with the way she was just totally not letting me talk with anyone else. But I cant hide my feelings. Lol maybe next time when I encounter a girl like this I will just break it down to her tell it like it is right at this point of the set. Tell her im feeling her but you aint gonna tie me down I am a free man. I think I did eventually tell her this but it was way too late in the set.

Me and Christina dance close together and makeout the rest of the night its pretty clear that she digs me and to others it looks like im her bf. Eventually we rendevoux with her group and in this group is again that HB White girl who found herself this 26 something yr old ex army dude who is pretty built and seems to be pretty cool but has a touch of shyness. With him is his freind another white guy who was honestly halfway annoying. HB white girl didnt like him because he came off as immature she then stuck to Army guy the rest of the night. Unexpectedly I kind of become leader of this group in my mind for a second because people want to go back to Murrieta to party at Army Guys house but my girl and her friend who I danced with earlier HB white girl doesnt want to go. I just use confidence I guess to get everyone to an aggreement about which cars to take how long we should stay. I feel proud of myself somewhat.

(BTW Lionheart had a good night he number closed and kiss closed with some hot chicks I forget exactly what they looked like but I remember one was shy and one was wearing a white shirt. I actually go into a VIP booth for a little while cuz this chick he meets is VIP so all is good with him and he goes back to his pad.)

Meanwhile I leave my car in riverside and I drive ( Idk why she wanted me to drive I think she said she just felt "safer" with me behind the wheel lol) my girls Corrola to Murrieta about an hour away to party at Army Guys house.

Now Army guys house is pretty nice its a medium to large two story house but its CLEAN as fuck and thats good considering everybody who lives here is college age to mid 20s so pretty young people who got it made. Big screen, Xbox, Surround sound system and a nice liqour cabinet lol. We all take shots but I limit myslef to just a couple because I have to drive back. Tipsy we all talk and connect. There at the house is this short black chick who I danced with at the club, a couple other girls who live there and werent at the club and one guy who I remember as being cool as fuck he was like from Africa or something and he had just moved in. Me army guy his friend and the two girls rounded out the bunch. This guy is obviously rich he has a bunch of toys he doesnt need. Soon after making ourselves comforatable on the couch the unthinkable happens! He says " Hey you guys just want to go upstairs and crash on my bed" since we both are close to falling asleep. Im like oh shit this is so tight its like set up for me. We go upstairs and his BED is massive and very comfortable, like something you can sink into but its risen up and very suppourtive as well so its just perfect. BUT army guy kinda fucks up the mood by saying shit like "Oh and heres the shower and please dont make a mess" Lol. Im ready to go theres a condom in my bag but dude she just does not put out. Right when the guy leaves she says" Were just sleeping right" suggesting LMR. I feel like I should have pushed it but in my mind I was like whatever if it happens it happens. Bad choice because she wasnt going to do anything. I was barely aggressive and I think by playing it safe even though she said she didnt want to fuck I lost her. Its so hypocritical and weird but bitches do this they say oh no I dont wanna fuck but then get mad at you for being "soft". How do you guys feel about this?

Anyway We ended up making out a lot got her kind of on top of me but no clothes came off and she didnt let me even touch her boobs. The only things I was able to do was grab her ass and make out and looking back on it it just sucked so bad because I played her relatively good up to that point. Eventually HB White girl comes in and joins us in what were doing.. which is basically just snoring.

I take both girls back to riverside and on the drive home this girl is still on me pretty hard holding my hand and talking about how cool I am. I kiss her goodbye when I leave hoping things will be allright but later when I phone her I make a big mistake. In my mind at the time i was thinking she was LTR material when she obviously was not and in my mind I also kind of psyched myself out about when should i call her and all that. I basically just lose the HB. I text her a couple times and even though we made plans to meet up in a couple days again I never see her again and she just totally stops texting me back and doesnt answer any of my calls. WTf? So a failed set? I still have her number although I would not call her a oneiteis I can say its frusturating to have this done to you. So any expert advice for what I should do next time? I think I waited two days to text her but I forgot what I said. The problem was she just wouldnt text back and I started getting scared that she didnt like me anymore until she actually didnt because she stopped returning my calls. Its hard to be as cool as I was in the club all the time I consider myself a cool person but I need guidance im kindave emotional and depressed very confused and intelligent but I have a real hard time of applying myself. Im scared to death that I might not finish college because of my bad grades and I never seem to follow through and finish things, Never had a satisfying relationship either so I get into the habit of really being demeaning to girls because they have hurt me in the past or finding a good girl but not being able to get into a relationship with her. Any advice or help? Thankss

Till next time

-Aiden