Friendly takeover
Last night I went out with some friends in our local bar. I saw a nice girl and I desided to approach her. My approach went great (maybe a bit to blunt) but I had her attention. It took me several minutes to break down her wall of selfconfidence and get her down to the point were she had had to be nice to me to get my attention. After several minutes a stept away for a second to show her that I was not desperate for her and I gave her a bit of a cold shower. She was still interested and she kept looking my way. Just like in every bar with a nice girl there are allways scavengers on the lookout and once you turn your back they will try and conquer her. In my case the scavenger came in under the radar (its my own brother). I negged the girl and her confidence was still low, but here comes the knight in shining armor. My brother approaches the girl and starts beeing nice to her and tries to persuade her by ass kissing her ass. He is better looking then me and he emmidiately gets the girls attention by giving her the attention I was not offering. I dont want to look desperate and get angry at him for messing up my sarge, because that will only look desperate in the eyes of the girl and he does not take any words from me so he wont leave. How do I prevent this Cockblock from my own brother and how do I get the girls attention back and not look desperate?

Your brother messes up your sarges?

How about hitting him in the face once the both of you get back home? problem solved. Damn, it's your brother, he should know better.

Stop going clubbing/out with your brother and find a group of friends who aren't a bunch of asshats.

and also when you were walking away and she didn't re-initiate you are suppose to go back and say "oh yea bla bla bla" Neg "bla bla"
Dont look too invested in her when your doing this also.

I was planning on going back but the scabenger allready struck so I was blocked. When it comes to hitting my brother, that's just not the way we comunicate. It would only show my weakness (I am stronger though ^^). Its not the first time he does this so I am realy looking for a solution. He hangs out with the same group of friends so simply finding someone else to go out with is not an option.

Well then find some new friends or go out alone once or twice and accumulate some numbers and make friends with some of the bigger guys there then go with them. If you have a bunch of big dude friends and a bunch of girls that you go out with too your the leader of men and preselected. Try it out.

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Social interactions and fun, that's why I'm here.

Finding new friends is nog how it works in my town. Its a small town and all the groups are allready formed. I allready know the people I go out with for 10 years and in the bar all the groups of people usually know eachother since childhood. If there are any people who dont have someone to go out with yet its usually for a very good reason.

Sorry man, did not know that. Well then only go out with some of your friends and not your brother if you can. Otherwise I really can't help you.

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Social interactions and fun, that's why I'm here.

His friends are my friends so leaving him out is not an option. Besides this problem could also accure with other amog's so there has to be a sollution.

Tell your brother to lay off.

I'm sure you can do it nicely enough that he'll understand.

I posted this because I tried talking, tried getting angry, tried reasoning. My brother is the kind of person that cant stand it if someone has something more than he does even if it is his own brother. Believe me, I would not have posted this if I would not have tried everything. My question is not how to get rid of my brother, my question is how to get around him and get the attention of the girl back.