So, i was kind of wondering how to actually deliver an opener, and also how to transite to a routine, basically the beginning part..
For example, should you head towards the target only when you made eye contact etc.. A situation description (example) would be great. thx

Just do anyapproach! Your first goal is just to approach and nothing else then when you feel more comfortable with that you move on! Dont aim too high or you wont even approach.

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The more you think of it, the less chance you will actually approach.. I dig it
I just wanna know what eye contact do you keep? with the target, or simply rule her out of the convo?

Well in early part I keep eye contact all the time and then later on it become bit retard if you keep eye contact 100% of the time. Think how you are with your friends you dont stare them into eyes all the time. Relaxed body language is easy just try to take it easy and see how your body is and then try to do same when in set.

Transition is just changing subject. Simply talk about something else. There are some good worrds you can use for changing subjects but since im not naturally english speaking I dont know those. I recommend that you study these major programs and and see which one is suitable for you and then go out sarging.

I dont have any routines at all I make my stuff on the go but then again im 27 and I have had lot happening during my life time so there is lot to talk about.

You dont need eye contact to close the target but if you get one force an ioi. You just need to understand that one set doesnt matter you need to do hundreds or thousands of them before you are really good so get on it. Also if you fear rejection be polite to them and they are polite to you.

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Keep it like talking to friends - all i needed to hear.. Body language is not a prob, neither is talking about stuff, it can be done situationally most of the time.
It's just that i have some block in my head, its not some fear or anything, cuz i don't give a dam 'bout rejection, its just that when i think about a set just hanging arround, i have no idea how i'd approach even in my head.. And yeah, forcing IOI is np i guess..
Thanks alot Slip in an example from opening to - XX closing (f,n, or naything) if you can, since i tend to learn from examples.. Cheers.

As silly as it sounds I still follow the 3Second Rule, it doesn't give you enough time to process anything besides opening the lady and running game.

Ok I go through a direct opener since it is my favourite. I see this hot girl in group of girls who are heading to dance floor. I step in front of the girl and block her patch while saying hi and keeping eye contact. I said: I think you are cute but are you also friendly? Then girls replied: "Maybe but my friends are waiting me to go on dance floor" I told her that If I can raise her up with one hand she will stay with me for a while then I lift her and carry her to nearest sofa. I had kiss and number later on.

Mostly there isnt resistance like that when going direct but this was just to point out that sometimes you need to deal with resistance. Anyways hb10s have resistance almost always so better do warm ups before you go hit on them.

When doing indirect just go open them or maybe you can open over should or something like that im not particularly fond of indirect methods. Just walk near them and deliver your opener.

Im not even sure Im answering right questions here anymore.

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Hahah, you sure are, thanks m8. I like that direct approach, gives u that funny-cocky attitude in a way.. And yes, the 3 seconds rule is a great one when you actually have something to say pronto

My attitude is serious/playfull when doing direct. Cocky/funny is used in high value openers which I dont like at all tbh.

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Well yeah, that's kinda what i meant, my bad for using the bad term, i dont dig some of them that much By the way, you just pick her up and carry her to a sofa?

Well I actually carried her next to soffa but at least for me girls let me crab them in the air and most of them like it. I have this little playfull attitude that lets me get away from many things.

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