went to uni party, spot sxc girl

Me: you should dance with me

while dancing i asked for her name the venue is too loud, so i get really close to her (stick my face to her face lol) she does the same, when asking questions.
we dance and than she asks me to go outside while walking outside i grab her by the side (there were seats outside as well and some ppl were hanging outside as well) so off we go and she sits on a chair, asks me to sit with her. My friends seated in front of us. She asks me questions like where are you from etc, than 1 of my buddies come and asks everyone to come inside. We all go inside and while walking inside, i grab her again and tell her lets pretend we are partners (lame??) we dance for a bit and i don't remember the rest but yeah after that throughout the whole night she was with a guy, who i think was her clingy boyfriend lol at this one point she was alone and she asked me to come by pointing with her hand i go over
her: when are you leaving?
me: idk.. why?
me: we should go for a walk
her: said sumthin all i remember is her laughing
her: do u drive?
me: no (dammit!!!!!!!)
her: lets share a cab
me: where do u live
her: location ( vry close 2 uni)
me: i will walk you home.
her: i will go ask my friends and see ( she never comes back, with bf all night)

I need your input. Was this girl interested? did she wana fuck me or just use me??? did i do well?

anyone??????? i found her f.b should i add her?

you definitely did do well and you should really never come out thinking you did bad, just how you can improve.
Now when you were with her it sounds as if you werent paying attention to her IOIs otherwise i guess you wouldnt be asking. when she first agreed to dance she expressed interest similarly with when she asked you to go outside, unless there was something you could think that made her want to stop dancing and leave, but dont think about that. When you grabbed her as you went in this small form of kino i believe would have done wonders, however if what you were saying wasnt right and it was a awkward grab well then no. But with the grab and the statement lets just pretend to be partners could have been too much butt read her body language. did she tense up or did she move closer, things like that. i think you should have incorporated a little bit of humour in with that line as well as it would have added a nice flow to things. to finish up with determining if she was interested or not would have been when she called you over with her hand as a girl who is not interested would not do that unless she was using you but i ruled that out when she asked to share a cab as im sure there would have been many other people to do that.
with did she just want to fuck you mmm maybe but really is that a bad thing? you can use it completely to your advantage as you can tease her as not only have you succeeded in her expressing interest in you but also have her hormones wrapped around your finger. dont tease too much as "no body likes a tease" use it in moderation
i think you definitely should add her on facebook however dont say anything to lead her to believe your keen and want her as that will give you the most un appealing characteristic of desperate, say something to her like "hey, this is the girl i met last night right?" wait for reply.. then say something like "ah awesome i have been looking all over for you." (build her excitement and curiosity) then drop something completely not what she thinks "yer, i have been asking everyone but did you manage to see my wallet at all? i think ive lost it." that way she gets lead on then pushed back. a kind of quick verson of push pull.

hey im only new to this site but this is all i can offer.

it seemed like there were some genuine iois going as far as the conversation presented and her actions... i'm not too sure if i would proceed with the facebook add, unless you asked her about/mentioned it during the party. I would feel it would give you that "stalker" status if you went out of your way to seek her out. Especially after the rest of the night she essentially avoided you.

You really should of just shared the cab, you probably could of made ANY excuse to "hang out" in her place for a bit and escalated.

andd95 has a valid point about sharing the cab with her as you could have potentially gone back to hers and even if not going back to hers, sharing a cab could have given you two alone time. this would have been a good time to arrange another day you could meet up, which would eliminate as andd95 said the stalker add on facebook. But to be honest i dont think its really that stalker like to add her on facebook but maybe wait a day or two and send her some half ass response to show that your not dependant on her, but still interested in having her there. dont become obsessed or if you do, just dont show her that. remember HSV your a busy man

thank you soo much guys!!!!! and yeah the 1sdt i grabbed her she removed my hand after a a few seconds anwaysy i msged her on f.b lets see wot happens

me: are you the girl from the party?
girl: yh i wnt 2 da (name of party) ^^

i wana f close dis girl asap help me guys

i have given you a plan demonstrate HSV to her and make it look like you added her not because you want to get with her but for some other reason. e.g. the wallet or phone or something. its one girl out of 100000000000000000000000000000000000000000 and its your first party experience, low and behold next week when you go out the same thing will happen but she will be even hotter. if your dead set on this girl well then thats wrong as your giving in at the first available exit. keep hunting.

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you already want me, you just dont know it yet.

let us know how it goes, like a poster has said above if that was your first party you are in store for many encounters where women appear from thin air. Don't seem to over eager or you will lose it.

Not sure how the encounter on facebook went but since you messaged her already I guess adding her at this point has already been resolved. Remember the golden rule regardless of the real situation never make it seem like she is the only priority or she will walk all over you.

Me: I have been asking every1, buh have you seen my wallet?
Her:oh no~ guy did u lost ur wallet?
Me: oh dont be upset, your gonna buy me a new one anyways
Her: oh my god ^^ r u kidding ,lol
Me:maybe, next time dont steal my wallet

after that she added me lol and i wait for a minute and speak to her on chat

I ask her how she is gone pay back and stuff, she defends herself saying she didn't steal it lol. We talk for a while, she gets angry about the wallet thingy she kept asking me 2 apologize so i tell her i am gonna make it up 2 her. She asked how and i said i will tell you sum other day and she asked again i didn't reply and left f.b.

things are moving pretty good if any1 is interested to know what happened next then let me know