recapping 4/6/2011
Exams were over, I am graduating, and two of my friend's turned 21 this past week so me and my friends all went out to the bars to celebrate. Half the group I was with was girls and for the most part good looking, I was the first one through the door of the bar and led the group just feeling like the mother fucking champion.
Bar 1: fun talk to this nice HB 8 who was in the group super christian and has a BF, but I didn't really know her that well and it was good to get the ball rolling and establish show some DHV off at the bar. From the bar we went to a club and I drank a little too much, enough that I was loose relaxed and having a ball but not sloppy.
There was a three set HB 7- HB 8 and one of the girls was talking to a guy so I ignored her and danced with her two friends and she tries to get my attention and I give her a look then turn back to her friends and she RIPS MY SHIRT OFF. Like straight over my head, it was crazy. I shouldn't have drank as much as I did because I would have probably F-closed her. Anyways I went back and danced with all the girls I was with especially the HB 8. And I had them spin me off into other groups of girls all evening. It was great. Anyway I tried getting a little closer to the HB 8 and she brought up that she had a BF, and I quickly disqualified myself as trying to be making a move. I think she brought it up twice more, one of the times I started using a BF destroyer but realized after starting I didn't remember the whole thing so I wrapped it up shortly, and made her laugh. Anyway, today she friend requested me on Facebook. I am not sure if I can or will try to take her any farther, but yea huge confidence boost. And lesson learned, less alcohol.

4/9/2011
Today I ran into a friend of mine from freshman year I hadn't seen in years when leaving the gym, after exchanging numbers I told him we should go out for drinks soon. He said that he was going out tonight, and that I should come. I needed a break from drinking so I offered to DD.
I get to his place for the pre bar beers, and I meet his friend visiting from England. So I have my friend (who is a natural and half) his French friend and another kid all going out on a dead night to the bars. We get down there and it is pretty dead. Monday night, last night of exams and everyone is in. Anyway we decided to show Mr. France a good time and proceed to get him hammered. At the last bar/club we were at a girl I had known a few years back walked in. She is kinda cute sober an HB6 drunk an HB8, that is just how she is. Anyway I introduce her to the guys and she goes out and starts dancing alone on the dance floor. She is a really good dancer I know she goes to a lot of raves and is always out downtown. Since the natural is shit faced, the kid is being an AFC and mr. France is happy just putting back a few drinks I go out and do my lame ass dancing with her. She didn't grind on me or anything but eventually came back to the guys and I told her "You are a good dancer, I'm not up to your level, you should take me out some time and teach me" HB "sure anytime" and I number closed. Not a huge accomplishment considering we already knew each other but still a step in the right direction. Anyways, I could have easily taken it farther but since Mr. France only had one night in town, and I am all for making connections for when I travel, I pawned her off on him and let him have some fun with her.

So where do I take it from here? I might want to F close the girl but not really, but I definitely would like to learn how to dance in the club from her. Give it a day or two and get in touch on thursday or what? Any sage wisdom for an AFC?

4/11/2011 -building house
I went over to my friend's place to pick up my shoes and he was planning on working all night but his girl wanted to go out and I was planning to go out myself, so I made plans to pick her up on my way to the bars and considering her and I have all the same friends I let her juggle where we were going. She makes a great wingwoman. She texted saying that all the people she knew's plans were being shifty and that if I didn't care about going out, she would take me out the next night.
Plans got scratched, then like 45 minutes later her boyfriend calls me up and asks if I want to still go out he finished his work and was hyper. I was still game. Of course I was still game. "Well I have a couple of girls I want to introduce you too." This guy is very much a natural and always has good looking girls around. Anyway, we go out to the bar and he introduces me to the three set of HB 7-9's. The bar was dead, so it was my boy, his girlfriend, the three girls and two of their friends. Since it was such a small venue, and i was the only person who didn't know the girls(turns out I already knew one of the other guys) it made it a little strange to break in, and I wasn't the most comfortable starting kino and escalating. I did get some one on one time with the target that my friend wanted me to meet, and she seemed pretty cool, smart and definitely cute. Anyways it was getting late and the bar was closing so I was going to drop my friend's off at their place and head home, and the girls, who also happen to be my friend's neighbors, invited us back to their place to smoke a little. The target's sister was all about the my and his girl coming over but largely ignored me, making me feel like a third wheel.
We obliged and met them back their place, everyone was sitting on a L sofa and there are no seats left next to the girls and two of them are retarded drunk and the target had gotten very quiet after smoking But one of the girls mentioned to the guys that there was a concert of an artist I really like a few hours away and that they should get tickets, I jumped in with that as my bridge. Before I could ask for it my friend told the target to give me her number. This was definitely frustrating since I was literally about to ask for it one my own, and makes me look not as good. Whatever, I got a number.
Things are building on themselves lately. I know what I did wrong, not showing I am an Alpha Male and not beginning kino and asking those stupid get to know you questions (what are you studying, oh you are moving to X, why? etc), in the 1-on-1 time, but I did get her to laugh a few times and made some decent jokes and put in a neg or two. Can anyone offer me advice on recovering from the mistakes. I need to call her today to get the tickets, waiting is not really an option on this. Too soon to ask her out?

Thanks everyone for your input. I really appreciate it. I thought this was a place for guys to help each other? Seriously, the most inexperienced AFC among us can give encouragement and advice. Enough with my bitching, guys I could use your help...

Tonight I graduated. I broke my rule of not buying anyone drinks as a friend's friend was turning 21. My female wings failed, they were too busy talking to each other. My voice is shot trying to yell over the r-tard crowd. I may have cemented my cougar appeal since my friend's mom and aunt gave me a couple of IOI's. my male wings got swepted upm with their own targets. the chick who ripped my shirt off was a little flirtatious but ultimately a loss or is a female PUA. Christian HB was there, I got some further IOI's but from what I am getting, there is some definite mental block on her part regardless of the physical attraction. She is not my one-itis because I could care less if anyone slept with her, but her religion is really strong and a guiding force for her so I NEED SAGE WISDOM ON THIS. I either need to be on the verge of blacking out or I need to go for cougars as they seem to be the two demographics who will go for me. The chick from the other night answered my call remembered me and didn't call me back, her loss.