alright, thanks heaps guys
There is one problem though...it may be me overthinking things but:
Girls often see me as adorable (im not bragging here, lets me clear. Its not good.)
because of the way I look, and my smile is described as really uplifting rather than "hot".
Although I think this may make it easier for me to make friends with girls, because i look genuine and non-threatening, i think it also makes it a lot harder to appeal sexually.
SO, im thinking...maybe in my particular case, based on my "cute charm" as opposed to "hot alpha male-ness", the smiles back arent actually anything other than
"aww, he looks sweet"
So how do I know that the only reason im getting smiles back is because I look cute, and not because I show confidence/being fun?
These thoughts came to me on my way home tonight, when i smiled at this very unnaproachable looking girl (she was really hot though), and she looked at me for a second then flashed a really genuine smile back with abit of a giggle. This girl was older than me (25 maybe, im 18), and then said later "youre so cute"
which didnt upset me at the time, but shattered my confidence in a way. Is this how all girls view me?
I felt as though if i were to game her, she would reject me the moment i escalated because im already viewed as "cute" not "sexual".