So I finished the book by Neil Strauss. It was a great read, but it seemed like everyone in the story had absolutely no life. They were completely sucked into this false reality that you need to get laid as many times as possible to validate your self-worth. I certainly do not want to end up like some of the guys described in that book. People were putting up facades and memorizing routines like their life depended on it. The whole theme of the social robot was scary. There were parts about the book that I was extremely uncomfortable with, i.e. dual induction massage. I just want to build my game and meet more girls, but I certainly have no intentions of losing myself in the process. I'm kinda scared knowing that I may go too far like some of those guys in the book. Anyone else feel this way?

I totally get you point! Neil described his process from none-sex -> over-sexed -> balanced life.
I could tell you a lot of stuff right now but you should just see it yourself.
The21Convention: www.the21convention.com

I think you should watch Orlando Owen's speech first because he says some important stuff about your state of mind. Actually here is the direct http://www.the21convention.com/2011/03/ ... 0-florida/

The next one should be this one: http://www.the21convention.com/2009/09/ ... t21c-2009/ by DJ Fuji

then watch all the rest of it. Besides the one of Rob Judge. He is just talking shit that will just confuse you.

I was trying to not read the book so i wouldn't get too focused on it but... couldnt resist

Unnatural game will not make you the person you want to be, it will hide you from inner growth. Focusing on natural game, and becoming a better, sexier man will. Be who you are, just improve. Use routines and canned shit if you must to get comfortable, but then start studying natural game from the masters who know what they're talking about. Life isn't about lays man, it's about...LIFE.