so basically today i have talked to 2 girls on Facebook one i don't know but i know her boyfriend and one girl does CCF at my school for those who don't know its like a gay army thing we have to do at school (no offence to any soldiers).

so girl 1 with the boyfriend i want trying to flirt or pick her up but she seemed to like me and i have never spoken to her in my life this is my conversation she posted on my wall.

her: Thanks for the add,do i know you?x

me: nope you don't know me, but im a mate of bakers i think.

her: i think?:L

me: well i cant read minds so for all i know he hates me but im pretty sure were friends.

her:hahaa alright


that was on my wall and i tried not care when talking to her and not look needy i want wanting to flirt.


now girl 2 the one who goes to ccf who doesn't have a boyfriend she is an 8 for sure and i haven't spoken to her in my life.

she private messaged me on Facebook saying.



her: heyy how do we know each other? xx

me: not properly i guess but from ccf.

her: ahhh thats cool hve u done ur gun test yet?

me: nope not yet, have you ?

her: nahh, ive only helld it like twice i still find heavy as hell :L

me: haha there not that heavy.

her: okay fine im as weak as hell, i admit it :L nd ur a guy so u hve more muscles than mee :p

me: fair enough maybe you should start doing weights and build some muscle.

her: yeh but thats wat the guns for :L nd i dnt wanna be like mrs muscles like the cleaning ad :p

me: yeah it would be kinda weird if you were really muscular.

her: hah just a bit :L so hows ur holidays goin?

me: its going ok i guess kinda boring, hows yours ?

her: well i got grounded so im having the time of my life in my hell hole u call a homee :L x

me: hahaha what for ?

her: Gettin caught drinkin on a skl trip :L they made such a fuss over nothing :L x

me: wow you are bad.

her: Haha your suprised? X

me: ha nah not really.

me: more surprised that you got grounded for something small like that.

her: Yeah only cuz the skl made it out to be a HUGE deal it was soo stupid xx haha but im allowed around peoples houses just not into town - that the mother realises :L xx

me: so really you have a pretty good deal going on with your mum ha

and then i think she went to bed because it is 00:03 when she messaged me last/

but she was the on keeping the conversation going but my main fuck up was other thinking what to say and taking to long thinking of what to say. and i think she gave me some IOI's what do you think from both of the conversations any IOI's or are these just to normal conversations?

Attactive girls that I know won't usually hold a conversation with somebody that they don't know on Facebook. To me it seems like girl 2 is giving off some IOIs. Try being cocky funny, or negging her a bit more. To be honest in your coversation with her you were pretty boring.

As far as i can see, you're actually the one being gamed here, so not much to judge, no? I'd kinda blow you off after a couple of answers you gave there.. So an extremely good thing is that she kept talking with u, got a mass IoI there m8... Another thing i noticed is that both times the girls were the inittiators. U must be apollon Bottom line, effing be more energic, a "haha" in a convo wont do it.. Be playful, cocky, and all that stuff.. Over and out