The title pretty much says it all. She flakes. I do an appropriate move to try to re-frame the situation - "punish", if you will. Sometimes I just lean back and turn off the heat, sometimes I talk about what a good time I had, sometimes I ignore it, sometimes I playfully lay on the guilt (but not in such a way that sounds like whining.)

The problem is, none of the methods I do post-flake gets her back on my side. Over and over, women flake once, then don't respond to any other tactic. They disappear, or remain platonic acquaintances. Once I had a crawl-back, MONTHS later, from a MILF HB8, but she was desperate and we both knew it.

I feel like I am jumping the gun on setting up dates, or perhaps reading IOI's too eagerly. What am I missing here?

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when u set a date & she says she can't make it, answer & say "damn i was about 2 tell you i couldnt make it either, we should rescedule"

either she says yes, and gives another day to meet up

either she says no. which means the obvious.. no..

cause.. maybe.. she actually had a real reason to flake but that she DOES wanna see you. Or maybe not. But this is a way to find out

when they flake, you should show indifference and no needy attitude.

When you do, they flake "For good".

When you fuck up, you should disappear out of her sight for enough time to come back with the right frame.