hey, can i get your opinion on something? Me and my friend are having a discussion about what women prefer after you get their number text or phone call????


Help me with a follow up... and give me your honest opinion on it...

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It seems a bit transparent.

Also, it implies that you're only really after her number. She could just flirt for a second and give you a fake number to get rid of you. You may feel like you've succeeded when really you've been played.

A phone number isn't a very meaningful goal, and it doesn't really convey sexuality to the woman. By opening with such an intention, you're essentially telegraphing "your phone number is the best I expect to get from you." What are you going to do with it? You're not going to sit up all night chatting with her like school girls. You're going to call her to set up a date. You might want to frame your opener from the point of view that you want to set a date, rather than just obtain a phone number. You need to be able to add some sexuality to your frame without alarming her. A phone number opener just doesn't do that.

Also, 9.9 women out of 10 will prefer that you call. Some women will question whether you know anything about women at all if you ask this.

Agreed the opener is too transparent and defeats the point of opinion openers. Remember the idea of an opener is just to start a conversation and get around the basic shield most women have. It's not to close the girl on her number.

If you are using openers like this I am guessing that you are having a hard time making basic conversation with women and just don't know what to say in general. If that is the case then my task for you would be to approach women and just talk to them. After you start talking to them and get them engaged in conversation stay in the set, DO NOT EJECT, even if you have nothing to talk about. STAY!

This will force you to do better with idle chit chat and help you with your ability to open. Keep in mind the object here isn't for kissing, numbers, or lays! It's just to get you talking to people and getting you more comfortable in set. If you commit to this you will do much better.

Yeh I gotta agree, I like this one, but not as an opener.
You can always chat about one of your 'girlfriends' who was asking for your advice on how to get this guy she sees in the office everyday, then maybe lead on to.... Apparently she meets a lot of guys but they never text her back.... What do you think, text or call.
Then say everyone is entitled to their own opinion unfortunately your wrong, now give me your number and i'll text you, wink (or opposite of whatever she says)

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I never use an openers in my life but once:

I went up to the girl and said: we do not know each other and we do not have any friends in common so i decided to take the initiative and introduce myself... And i got her... Anyways... I do not like openers and i do not feel comfortable with all the pua openers, cause they do not match my personality... or i make stupid comments about their shirt, or outfit or personality, just talk... But i am trying to be original and create my own opener..hahaha, i guess i have a long way to go...

Since i look like Vin Diesel, i am going to ask do you think i look like Vin Diesel.. What you guys think????? The problem is that my goal is not to sleep with them, i am happy with my girl..it is just to talk or to hook up my other friend... That is why i like dance floor game you do not need openers...

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If you're not trying to get ass, then you have the easiest game of them all. Just be natural. Make like you're just trying to make new friends... because that's what you're doing. Just strike up a conversation like you normally would. Who needs an opener for that?

If you're trying to hook up your boy, then you should use him as the subject of the conversation. Kind of like the "Have you met Ted" game they play in How I Met Your Mother. The jest of it is, you walk up to someone and say, "Have you met (friends name)?" and introduce her to your friend. I think that could actually be suprisingly effective, especially if you caught your friend off guard with it (or he's able to appear caught off guard).