hi guys,

i've got a big problem today.
my friend i know since september 2010 told me today she considered me as her brother, and said i would never be able to seduce her (eventought i'm not trying right now). She dared me to seduce her and make her want to kiss me.

Any routine i found or read about isn't usable in her case, cause she's acting really weird. Sometimes she's being very distant and will almost ignore me, and 2 hours later she will hold my hand and hug me become very affectionate.

All the IOI thing doesn't work then, and I can't detect any specific body language when i try to seduce her because she acts so weirdly..

help me guys please?

I need to have seduced her and kissed her before may 15 because she leaves for Europe for 5 weeks..:/

Thanks a lot!

She SHIT testing you, and obviously knows the game. And it seems like you've made this situation to be more of a bet. My opinion, just blow her off. Tell her you aren't interested in her that way. Then when she turns up the heat with hugs I would gently push her away, be playful, and say things like "I'm sorry but you are way to much of a nice girl for me". Things like that. Then when she really starts coming onto you, KINO escalate and make it seem like you are open to the idea if she tries a little harder...something like "Do you really think you can handle what I have to offer?"

You have the power, own it. But the time frame sucks for you. You're better off just ignoring her until she comes back and trying to get in touch with her. Start from square one.

You need to seduce and kiss her? And she says that?

Sounds like some sort of invitation to me.
At the moment i got the line that says "'Bang that girl hard'' in my head.

Strange.....

Thanks for the advice guys


@Amadieus; that's what I thought, but remember she said she considered me as a BROTHER, and you don't fuck your brother..haha

@TheBison; the first part of your advice would work, but the 'Do you really think you can handle what i have to offer?' thing won't work cause it'll remember her her first idea, wich was that she did not want anything to happen cause she considers me as a brother.. :/

Anyone have some other tips or advices or routines for me?

What they're saying is essentially the same thing - even though she's said you're like a brother to her, she means something completely different (have you never heard of a little thing called lying... women do it frequently to hide their true intentions because they would be deemed "slutty" in society today)
TheBison is actually spot on with the 'Do you really think you can handle what i have to offer?', you just need to reframe your interactions with her. For example any positive IOI's she gives to you, bust her balls on like shes making a move and then the above offering will make perfect sense.
so basically what she is really saying is not what you stated here:
rather an invitation "I dare you to seduce me, and if you play your hand right, you may just get lucky"
an odd example of the brother thing is my brothers girlfriend who playfully considers me a brother or sometimes son depending on the mood, yet she continues to remind my brother how attractive I am and how manly i am etc. - words are meaningless compared to actions

the way she is swinging back and forth in body language - well I'm not entirely sure why (someone more experienced may be able to tell you) but I've had similar situations where when i finally lost interest I got the lay.
So both of the other guys advice was pristine in just ignore her, and shit test her back to frame her like she's after you.

If she's in her affectionate mood, just be as direct as you can be. Period. The only way to avoid the bullshit tests. Or ignore it completely.

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I haven't logged in for a while, and I just remembered about this forum

My mission was accomplished a few days ago, as she texted me she wanted to see me. I asked her (joking) if she was in love with me or something and she asnwered yes and started declaring her love for me

I know this was my goal, but I changed a lot in the past few months and I decided that I did not want to go out with her.

I have read about 20 books on body language, I watched many videos and learned a loooooot of stuff recently, and some new girl came in my life, eventhough she didn't make her entrance the right way (long story, i may explain it in a new thread)


Thanks a lot guys for all your help, it was really appreciated!