Hey guys, I'm 23 and from Iowa. I've read lots of seduction material and since implementing these lessons and inner game techniques (I practice the Secret, positive affirmations, working out, etc.) into my life I've had good success with women. So I would like some tips on this current situation I'm in.

I met this HB7 through a mutual friend, a guy who is a good friend of hers. Right of the bat, he's an unattractive friend of her families, they hang out together a lot but I believe have no sexual or intimate relationship. Anyways, I had met this girl on FB and found out she had the same mutual friend, so we made plans to go to a movie. (AFC I know, but I don't drink so bars are a no-no.)

The day for the movie comes, and last minute she shows up with the mutual friend, a cockblock in action. However I quickly DHV and display cocky-funny responses to her, and quickly AMOG the guy. When we went to take our seats for the movie he attempted to manipulate it so I would sit next to him and not her, and I quickly called him out.

Me: "Hey bud, sorry I don't like sitting so close to guys."

He had no come-back, so I seated myself next to her. Got some slight kino and quiet conversation from her (The movie Suckerpunch kinda sucked.)

I would nudge her and she would smile and lean in and whisper in my ear various things like about the movie, and about her, etc. Not much fluff conversation, but again we were in a movie theatre. Afterwards, we smoked a cigarette outside together and I said I'd hit her up later, if I felt she deserved it. I said this with a slight smirk, and she laughed and said "You'd better call me."

Fast forward a bit, I had called her several times to which she always replied but our work schedules interfered. Finally we made plans for me to come over late after work (we both work second shift). I show up at her house, and her friend is staying the weekend with her. I immediatly make some cocky funny jokes and DHV myself, they are laughing. I neg HB7 by smiling and saying "It's cute your nose is bigger then mine." She clammed up slightly, felt maybe I had made a too personal neg, but things went fine. I ignored her a bit and fluffed her friend, which went well I had her laughing and loving me. Her friend was engaging me in conversation when I would let it lull off and got IOI's from her friend, which made the target jealous and she began engaging me in conversation.

Finally HB7 asked if I'd like to play skip-bo, which her friend was not into so she went in the other room isolating me and the target. We played for a while, and I had her laughing and getting light kino, which I began slowly escalating. After the game, I grabbed her arm lightly and pulled her onto the couch next to me. Good solid kino now, and I performed a pyshic "three questions prediction" game on her which amazed her. It was time for me to leave so I said "Make sure you text me good night." Gave her a hug and left, I could have gone for a k-close but didn't since I actually like her (hoping not to develop one-itis we'll get to that in a bit) and said good night and headed home.

Fast forward a few days:

She asked me to come over after work again, I did and she had some movies to watch. Oh, I hugged her and she hugged back very tightly as soon as I got there. I sat on the couch and patted the seat next to me, which she took and we began watching the movie. After a while I said "God this is uncomfortable and laid sideways down on the couch, pulling her down next to me which she consented to. We're now "spooning" on the couch and I'm letting my breath touch her ear, which I can tell is turning her on. I make some quiet talk to her about nothing really, turning the conversation sexual and using voice tonality to emphasize sexual words which I can tell are having an effect. Her friend leaves the room (Yes she was there again) and I lean up hovering over her body and staring into her eyes.

Me: "How would you feel if I kissed you right now?"
Her: *silence*
Me: "Lets find out."

I lean down and kiss her and she goes wild, thrusting her tongue into my mouth and pulling me down tight to her and we make out for a good five minutes. Her friend comes back in the room, and we stop and go out and have a cigarette. I sit down on a chair and pull her into my lap while we smoke, stroking her stomach with my hand. We go back in and it's time for me to go, so I kiss her goodnight and say we'll make plans later.

A few nights later, I again go over after work. We put in another movie and assume the "Spooning" position on the couch, only this time one of her legs is over mine and I'm soon rubbing her sides and hips with one hand. I turn my hands to her stomach and begin kissing the back and side of her neck, and lean in to gently nibble on her ear. Her legs spread more and I go for it, slipping one hand into her pants and feeling her crotch. She was soaked! I slip my hand into her panties and begin fingering her, which she's loving for a good five minutes.

She turns over and gives me those "fuck me" eyes so I quickly strip her naked, making out a little, however my dick is having problems getting hard. I think it's because I had had very little sleep over the past few days. I play with her a bit more and she wants to fuck bad, and she starts sucking me off like a fucking porn star. Deep throating, pulling back and letting a string of saliva hang from her tongue to the tip of my dick before gargling on it some more. Honestly, best head of my life and I've had quite a bit. But I still couldn't get hard. After about ten minutes of this I start eating her out and jacking off, but still can't get hard.

I start making excuses, and saying things like "Damn, you would love this big dick when it got hard." It was pretty big flaccid, but hard I'm a good 8". Anyways, she pushes me back and says "Just relax" and gets on top of me and starts kissing my neck and lips and stroking me, still can't fucking get hard!!! I'm getting pissed, cuz I really wanna fuck her. Finally after some more dicksucking I get it hard enough to put it in her, although it wouldn't get all the way hard. The sex is ok, and after about ten minutes of missionary I pull out cuz it got real limp and can't ressusicate it. I get it kinda hard, and go to push her over into doggy but she was resistant, so I just jacked off and came on her leg, which she laughed and said get me a towel. I did, we cleaned up, smoked a cigarette, and watched another movie cuddling before I went home.

Fast forward a week, we've been hanging out nightly almost, and things are going well. I'm ok with her being my gf I think, and she's asked me my intentions in indirect ways but I've always shifted around them like "I like you quite a bit, we'll see how things go." or cocky-funny "You think you can handle all of this?" We haven't slept together again, situations weren't quite right.

So, now the issue arrises. She starts hanging out a few days with this mutlual friend, blowing me off, not answering my calls. Last night she was with him and he called me trying to be nice but saying stupid shit like "There's nothing between us bro, but she doesn't like you. But I wish she did, she could use a guy like you." Blah blah blah, just cockblocing bs to boost his own ego. He then tried attacking me personally, by bringing up a girl I had randomly fucked and dropped on his door because I had no place to take her and she didn't have anywhere to go in my town. She then started texting me and calling me about this, saying she was having second thoughts about us.

I minimlized the situation, and asked if she was perfect, and that we all make mistakes. I said it was a learning experience, and I was glad for it. However today she flaked on going to a movie with me to hang out with him all day. I made the mistake of calling her at least five times today, only two of which she answered. I'm pretty damn sure there's nothing sexual between them, they're just old friends who like hanging out. But I KNOW he's cock-blocking me and talking shit about me, and she's kinda loyal to him friendwise.

How can I deflect his cock-blociking, and should I punish her for not answering my calls? Should I pull back a bit? Is the resistance too great, or what should I do to turn this slight fiasco into a succes where I'm pissing on his face and banging this HB7 again. Any advice or tips would be greatly appreciated, thanks so much guys.

just ignore her, forget her and game a new girl..

preferably her friend who stayed over for the weekend..

Ouch bro, very cool story, however you're in a shit position. You cannot do anything to block her out.. if anything you'd have to gain trust back from her friend, but instead he's an enemy now which was a mistake you did from the beginning in the movie theater, instead of making him look bad and come off as an AMOG, you should of disarmed him and slowly got on his good side.. but instead you left him to the part where his jealousy ruined your relationship with her. Looks like I'd have to agree with king0s, you'd have to move on bro... find another girl and just take it as a lesson learned, hopefully she will be missing you to the point she'll call you.. because calling her five times already shows she has the ball in her court.

Update: Ok so what are some effective ways of disarming his cockblocking? I havent read much material on disarming male obstacles, especially in that small setting.

Also, this morning she texted me apologizing saying her phone had been on the fritz yesterday. I ignored her call, and think I will punish her for not finding another phone to call me from by ignoring her calls and texts for a day or two. How long is too long to ignore her, or is this a bad idea?

Update: She texted me this morning saying she was sorry that she didn't get ahold of me yesterday, her phone was going to shit and she spent most of the day hanging out with the guy and his mother. She said she missed me. This was at 10 am, I ignored her text. She called me at 5:40 pm, I ignored the call. I plan on ignoring her for a day or two to punish her for ditching me, then calling her and saying "Hey I have xxx day off let's have a good time."

Yeah?

Sounds good so far, seems like she's craving your attention already. Don't say let's have fun, just say you're available so and so, and you'll (demand) pick her up at so and so time. Also, did she leave you a voicemail at the 5:40pm call? Depends on the situation for how long you freeze her out, it can't be too long so even returning her call tomorrow is good enough.

Thanks recovered, good idea on not freezing her out too long. I have tomorrow off and I know she does too, which is her only day off this week so I'll probably call her tomorrow morning and *demand* that I'll pick her up in the afternoon. Also, she texted me tonight at 10:30 when she got off work "Hey you." to which I'm going to ignore to tomorrow. Let her sweat it out a bit.

Yeah, you've definitely got the ball in your court, she's showing interest so you can't go any wrong now. Good luck man. Let us know how it goes.

Update: PUA training prevails! Got ahold of her the next day as I said and she had the day off, she wanted me to come right over and I said "I'm busy for a while, gotta work out and finish hanging and I'll come pick you up at 4."

I picked her up, she was DOLLED up for me so we went and did some stuff for a while, went out to eat with her family (which is a big +++ sign from her, she's a family type) then back to her place.

We're watching Sherlock Holmes, and I'm just relaxing kinoing her we're kinda cuddling, and I up the sexual tension by massaging more intimate parts of her body. She gets up and says "I gotta go to the bathroom, brb."

I'm sitting chilling, she comes back out wearing only my jacket with a cute look on her face as she walks closer to me. "Oops...I forgot my pants.." she says.

You can figure out the rest, the past few days after that have been great. Girlfriend material for sure, couldn't have done it without all I've learned in the community.