Yo!

I have been reading Neil Strauss 'The Game' that a friend recommended and just from reading that book the responses I get from females are much more positive! I am only 18, does that affect anything? It may also have something to do with me splitting up with my girlfriend and feeling a bigger sense of freedom.

So, i was wondering if anyone could help me into the game with any good tips. How to conquer fear? How to build confidence before going out? Anything will help!! and also how to discover new openers? I have been trying to think but cant think of any apart from one that may make me come across as a bit weird... or am I being an idiot and shouldn't worry about it to much?

Regards

SWIMTIME

Welcome to the forum!
The best advice I can give you is to use the "search" button at the top of the page. There are LOADS of topics on the basic things and type of questions you are asking.

This forum actually has a really good layout. They have put everything in the order that you may need to know it and apply it.

Approach/Open
Mid Game/Conversation
Routines
Closing

Start at the top, read about what others are doing. Find out what worked for them, add it to your game, adapt and make it your own.

If you have a question about it, it's a very good chance that hundreds of other people have already asked that same question.

sup man! im brand new also, instead of making a thread ill just see what people say for the both of us!

To build confidence to talk to women? Have a whiskey shot before you go out. Openers. Keep it simple and natural. Don't try too hard. If at a cocktail bar, ask what she's drinking and how it is.

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