I made some research and found it myself.
Here it is:
Girls rely on social status as part of their survival. As guys, we know that
if we absolutely had to, we could go out into the woods and live alone. Girls,
OTOH, are programmed to gain status socially. That's one of the reasons that
they're so fascinated with relationships, and that they are attracted to
socially proofed guys.
This is all generalization of course, and could be disputed. But either way,
viewing things this way will get good results in the field.
Anyway, because of this, most hot girls will always want to maintain sexual
power over you at all times. When you tease them, they'll start touching you
as a way of TOOLING you.
The "Elastic band snap back effect" is where girls will immediately shoot IOIs
at you, the second you strip them of sexual power. You can use this to get
them to do things that they wouldn't otherwise do. They garner you some brief
fake/temporary IOIs.
But while phoney, you can still use this to your advantage to move the set
forward. Here are a few examples:
"I HATE YOU"
"YOU'RE LIKE MY LITTLE SISTER.."
"YOU'RE SO MUCH LIKE MY GRANDMOTHER"
"YOU'RE SO DRUNK.. YOU KNOW, I COULD TOTALLY HAVE CALLED YOU TOMMOROW TO HANG
OUT.. BUT BECAUSE YOU JUST *HAD* TO GET SO DAMNED DRUNK, NOW I WILL NEVER CALL
YOU BECAUSE YOU WON'T EVEN REMEMBER ME.. WAIT TO GO.."
"ARE YOU ADVENTUROUS, BECAUSE IF YOU'RE NOT ADVENTUROUS I CAN'T HANG WITH YOU"
"I COULD NEVER BE ATTRACTED TO YOU.. YOU'RE TOO NICE FOR ME.. I NEED A GIRL WHO
IS MORE BADASS"
All of these have the same thing in common - they garner FAKE and TEMPORARY
indicators of interest.
To me, this is absolutely fascinating to watch. The second you usurp their
sexual power, they'll go to any length to get it back, regardless of whether or
not they're legitimately attracted to you.
This is a what I call a "PROGRAMMING WALL", which I'll post on that later.
It's one of many programming walls.
Anyway, what's interesting is that you can use this in different situations.
For example, you're on a time constraint. But at the same time, she's a TEN.
And you want her #, so you can at least attempt to game her on the phone.
She's worth it.
What to do? The patented "DRUNK CHICK #CLOSE"
As written above, you use the elastic band effect, and say that she's too drunk
to take her #. Of course, typical girl, 9 times out of 10 she'll whip out a
pen and paper and insist that you call her. And her friends will even say
"You'd better call her" and dumb shit like that. Even though she'll flake.
But this is USEFUL because you KNOW that going in, so you can re-game her on
the phone and get her to meet up anyway (assuming you have decent phonegame,
which even if you don't, this is a perfect opportunity to find a girl to
practise on)
Basically, the elastic band effect is a way to get like a 1 minute WINDOW,
where you have indicators of interest. It's not a full method. Rather, its a
tactic that you KNOW you have in your arsenal, in order to move along a pickup
should you need to.
I *love* the "I hate you" line, as a way of re-initiating a stale set. Damn,
its so fucking useful for me. I'll have a stale set, and the girl is
deliberately not making eye contact with me anymore. So I'll just walk up and
say "I hate you!", with a smile on my face. She'll be all "Why?!?!
WHY?!?!?!?!?!" and start hugging me or trying to kiss me.
This shit is so fucking ridiculous just to watch. The girls will do ANYTHING
to get back into your good books. You can even OPEN SETS with "I hate you",
and the girls will insist on knowing why immediately, and then you can go into
some opener based on that.
Where this stuff gets really interesting, is when you start to see it as
"programming walls" that girls have. You can start to get SERIOUS insight into
female psychology when you understand the reasoning behind this, which I'll
post about later.
I remember picking up this Netherlands chick (a 9.5) that I got into bed
although she wouldn't sleep with me (cried about her boyfriend, and I failed to
disarm it, although NOW I know how and I'll post on those LMR tactics later
also). The way I got her was when she was leaving, I said "Oh please, do you
think I'm going to chase a girl?"
Immediately she said "Well maybe you should.." It was PURE elastic band
effect. She didn't even like me that much yet. It was just her snap back
reaction to what I'd said. Although she didn't like me that much yet, it got
her to give me some superficial IOIs so that I wouldn't look stupid for
following her inside when she was ejecting me. With that time I'd bought, I
eventually got her to like me.
My favourites though are the DRUNKGIRL #CLOSE and the I HATE YOU line. They're
very important in my game.
I'll post more about this later.
-TD
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