I spent an hour with a girl at a party, we had a great time, and she was giving me IOI's all over the place. She was very keen on presenting herself as a good girl, for example got all red-faced and apologetic when I teased her about hitting on me, so I didn't escalate physically too much because I didn't think I could take her home from the party.

I set up a tentative next meeting and we exchanged numbers.

After a couple calls/texts that she ignored over the following week, she finally flaked with "sorry, I don't usually give my number to strangers and don't feel comfortable meeting up. have a good life, bye."

What exactly spurs on this buyer's remorse? I only kissed her on the forehead before saying goodbye, so I don't think I made her feel like a slut.

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"I'd tell her to go shove her face in the pig pen, and go out and find another one who'll kiss you without askin for the earth. You're bound to find one. You can hardly throw half a brick back in the lands you come from without hittin one."
Stardust

Listen to me and do exactly as I say. Say this to her:

"I just wanted to get to know you more because you're a cute stranger. Pleasure to have met you, first name."

Now she thinks: wow, he didn't break rapport, he's being genuine with me. He also complimented me and wanted something more with me awww. But now I feel like it's my loss because he thinks it was fine.

Wow, perfect answer !!

you could pull a handful of suckers out of your pocket and say "darnit, i was hoping to get rid of these, you probably don't take candy from strangers either, do you?"

if she reaches for one say "uh uh, gimme the digits!"

lol, idk

of course this might make you seem more like a clown than a pua.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Love it Chris, perfect answer.

Mack, that shit's too much canned material, haha.