My girlfriend keeps wimping out on sex! What's wrong?!



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#1 Jish
PostPosted: Mon May 02, 2011 10:21 am 
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. Because she also said "When you push for it after I say no, it feels like sex is your main goal. I love you very much. But relationships should be built on more than that." :/
I think a lot of guys missed what is going on here. it seems to me this girl has a perception in her head about what she thinks the relationship is meant to be about. Its not that she doesn't want sex its that you aren't conforming to 'her' perceived image of the relationship. Find out what it is, why she thinks it, what she wants from it...then you will know where to go from there :)

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. Because she also said "When you push for it after I say no, it feels like sex is your main goal. I love you very much. But relationships should be built on more than that." :/
I think a lot of guys missed what is going on here. it seems to me this girl has a perception in her head about what she thinks the relationship is meant to be about. Its not that she doesn't want sex its that you aren't conforming to 'her' perceived image of the relationship. Find out what it is, why she thinks it, what she wants from it...then you will know where to go from there :)
Yeah you're right. According to her, sex "is the last thing on her mind." She's more into the sweet side of our relationship. She said she could hold my hand until she dies, if that gives you an idea of it. And that she didn't even need to be fingered last time. Trust me though, she is NOT lacking any horniness. In fact, she's the horniest girl I've ever known :shock: which makes me even more confused.
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Nothing to be confused about.

She is giving you blue balls.

Then when you leave, she is vigorously spanking her monkey for hours thinking about it in naughty ways.

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Yeah you're right. According to her, sex "is the last thing on her mind." She's more into the sweet side of our relationship. She said she could hold my hand until she dies, if that gives you an idea of it. And that she didn't even need to be fingered last time. Trust me though, she is NOT lacking any horniness. In fact, she's the horniest girl I've ever known :shock: which makes me even more confused.
this is my opinion....according to what you say she has some kind of idea that
"sex = bad for relationship" going on in her head. There is a reason so ill say again to talk with her and find out why she thinks this. Perhaps she is insecure and thinks you want to fuck her and leave, perhaps she has the perception that all men want is sex and no commitment, maybe she has a low sex drive there could be a million reasons and im sure you will find out man :)

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