So last night I decided to go for it and gauge my girls reaction to sexual "play" because the strong frame I have of her being a prude

...we started making out and i decided to reach down her pants and grab her butt, mission success. Grab her boob, mission success. I tried to reach further down her pants and try and finger her from behind but unfortunately her pants were too tight and i couldn't get down that far plus i dont know if its that time of month or not...

I lifted my shirt up, so both our bare stomachs were touching and was lightly caressing her lower back and stomach with the tips of my fingers. I also made it apparent that I had an erection by pressing it up against her. Are these all good things to do to turn a girl on?

Some small things I notice:
1) she rarely ever touches me while kissing, she just put her hand behind my head and keeps it there while I am constantly lightly touching her all over and playing with her hair. Is this because she is focusing on my kiss and touch, she doesn't know what to do, or what?

2) I noticed when I went to grab her butt she started breathing heavier/faster, is that a good thing or bad thing?

3) When I grabbed her butt she stops kissing me and we just keep our lips locked...is this a good thing or bad thing? does she mean she is nervous and wants me to stop? or she is concentrating on my touch?

1) she rarely ever touches me while kissing, she just put her hand behind my head and keeps it there while I am constantly lightly touching her all over and playing with her hair. Is this because she is focusing on my kiss and touch, she doesn't know what to do, or what?

I think she is just focusing on kissing with you and not used to touching more. maybe a bit inexperience to on her part.

2) I noticed when I went to grab her butt she started breathing heavier/faster, is that a good thing or bad thing?

Yeah good thing, that means she gets turned on

3) When I grabbed her butt she stops kissing me and we just keep our lips locked...is this a good thing or bad thing? does she mean she is nervous and wants me to stop? or she is concentrating on my touch?

Hard qeustion this one.
Maybe she was getting turned on and got nervous due to having not much experience. So thats she got so nervous that she stopped kissing. Im not sure though.

A good way to turn a girl on during kissing is also touching the inner part of the upper legs, near her pussy.

Goodluck!

Less nervous and more than she is thinking. It can become the same thing - Distract!

You can make her touch you, you should be in control anyway. I'm sure she will get more comfortable. Kiss her hand and put it on collar bone before sliding to your chest ect. You can pretty much put it wherever you want if she hasn't told you to stop. Or even if she has.

Kiss her chin, neck, behind the ears. It's pretty much just standard escalation. Protip: bottom of the hairline/top of neck.

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update:
k thanks for the replies guys.
Today we hungout again and today I introduced the tongue and slipped my hand down the front side, both werent rejected. I am really suprised, but I dont want to make it look like thats all I want or do when we make out.


I am thinking next time we hangout, just make out.
Then the next time involve tongue and actually go and try to take her pants off?

I want to take her pants off because the only reason I havent yet touched her vagina is because her pants are too tight to actually get that far down there...=/

Aaah just bang her next time u see her, girls just want as much sex as us guys do!

Well if you can't put ur hands in her pants because its to tight, then go touch her upper and inner part of the legs close to her pussy like i said before and after touching and massaging her a bit there, move your her to the place where hes pussy is. Then move to the top of her pants and stroke her there, move some fingers inside the pants and stroke her there to, if she does not give resist. then try to unbutton her pants.

Thats what i do and it works.

Goodluck!

k im gonna try to finger her or eat her out over the weekend and see what happens...wish me luck guys