I currently have both my ear lobes pierced and wear small black stars in them (most guys here wear silver earrings so I've tried to be a bit different). What other ways could you guys suggest for peacocking or props I can take out with me? I tried to purchase some oversized glasses yesterday from a joke shop but they were sold out. I figure they'd be perfect for a girl to take off me in a club thus opening me.

Thoughts and ideas guys?

Thanks.

Pick a sexy stereotype: a rocker, maybe? Your choice. Google some the rock stars you know and see what they wear and downright copy their style. For a rocker, earrings work great. also get a new haircut, get a ton of accessories. Choose the ones that really hit you, that way your conveying more of your personality.

I think it's better to be really stylish and go overboard with that stereotype of your choice than to REALLY peacock wearing something really outlandish Also, if you want a GREAT opener to use. put on your best clothes and go ask girls their opinions. be ready to listen and learn, maybe you'll get a cute girl go shopping with you. It's really attractive to a girl if a man is interested in fashion and willing to learn from girls.

But then again if you're congruent with the peacocking, meaning that you can have fun with it, of course it works. I was at this party a while ago where there was 2 guys wearing pink elephant costumes. The two guys were dancing and laughing their asses off at their costumes, and the girls were all over them.

So: pick a sexy stereotype OR wear a pink elephant costume

I love my watches, I have a ton of them. On my other wrist I'll wear bracelets and I never go out without a necklace. I also wear wallet chains on my jeans go for eye catching earrings.

Don't be scared of going too girly; you either come in under the radar or appear uber-confident in your own sexuality. If it's something she would like to wear she'll be more drawn to it. I used to wear a particular brand of ladies perfume until it was discontinued and I literally got lucky every night.. I was a student at the time though.

Guys accessories can be expensive so if you can find stuff in a sale stock up for mixing and matching. In my city we have a store which sells all kinds of ethnic fashion jewelery dirt cheap so that's always a good place to pic stuff up. It's worth keeping an eye out for 'end of the line' type stuff cause it's cheap and noone else is going to be wearing it! Go nuts!

And remember; you can tell a lot about a man by his shoes.

Just remembered, a great prop is one of those kiddies bubble blowers.. Chicks love bubbles for some reason. Blow some in her direction. She'll look to see where they came from and you can force an IOI. They'll probably want a go. Turn it into a game, who can blow the biggest one, make the most etc.

EDIT: Just noticed in your original post that you said you have BOTH ears pierced.. would you say that this is the way to go these days?

My Fedora hat wins all the time. Sets great frame.

Me:"honest opinion. Does the hat make me look gay?"
Hb:"no, it's great - it's actually a little mysterious"
Me: "I'm sure you're not gay either. Try it on"

Bam, kino her up. Worked a charm for me on my current project.