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PostPosted: Sat Apr 30, 2011 10:48 am 
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Sorry guys I couldn't post this in the relationships section. Anyway I've been going out with this girl for 2 months, and the furthest we've gotten is pecks on the cheek. Now all you PUA's out there are probably gasping in shock horror, but I honestly don't know what I'm doing wrong. I've been with other girls before and gotten a lot further a lot quicker. I would say she's very insecure and shy, so I'm trying to build up some comfort between us. Every time we go to hug or something, she's always paranoid that her friends are watching and making fun of her. (we're both in college) Can I get some advice on how to strengthen our relationship?


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PostPosted: Sun May 01, 2011 12:46 am 
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anyone?


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PostPosted: Sun May 01, 2011 7:16 am 
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Did you try kissing her on the lips? Like "Eh, fuck it" and just do it? Maybe wait until you are alone, grab her and kiss her. It seems that you want to kiss her. Take more control. After that, she may either learn that she likes it and it's okay to do anywhere, or learns that you are in control.
I think what she does now is partly a control game - she enjoys not giving you what you want, even if not consciously. I'd say go and get it, otherwise there is not much room for progress.


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PostPosted: Sun May 01, 2011 9:41 am 
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she enjoys not giving you what you want, even if not consciously.
Dude you've just summarised up my girlfriend in one line. She enjoys it very much. When I ask her to do something, she'll joke around saying "no" but then does it straight after anyway. I might take your advice on that, and just think fuck it and go for it.

Any other advice is welcome.


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