This happened tonight, and has happened fairly regularly to me over my time in the game: I successfully open a girl and get IOIs, but then lose her to some other random guy who walks into the set and takes her from me. The really annoying thing tonight is that it happened with a girl I'm just extremely attracted to (even though she'd only be a 7-8 on most guys' scales) and before I knew it, the dude (who I think was making out with her earlier) had her sitting on his lap and probably took her home.

I went back inside and pulled an older cougar-type (my unintentional speciality) from some chode who just stood there passively and let it happen. I would've gotten a ONS but this drunk girl forgot her cell phone and was so bummed out by losing it that she blew me off and went home alone.

That sucked, but what really bothers me that was that the girl I really wanted tonight was stolen, yet again, while I was passive and lost as to how to claim her for myself.

What can I do when this happens to blow the guy out without seeming like a try-hard or a possessive "but you just met her" creeper? My problem isn't so much that I have a hard time taking a girl away from a guy, as it is fending another guy off when he jumps into a set where I've got the girl locked in. I feel like anything I could do in that situation to show the guy the door is going to reflect poorly on me.

I would greatly appreciate any thoughts or advice on this. Thanks.

Same shit happens to me about guys butting in once Ive done the hard work opening and getting her defenses down. This guy was an old friend of hers who went out with a friend of hers and I suddenly felt like a spare part. I suppose this is just part of the game learning experience - being prepared and learning from experience. Fuck it pissed me off! lol. I suppose its the fact of life chatting to desirable women.
How about asking him how they know each other and that Im glad he decided to cheer up my date even though we were doing ok by ourselves? Seems like a need for some routine in the can to me but I cant recall anything like that in anybodies book Ive read! lol

This is when you could do with a wingman to disarm potential threats :\

game that moutherfucker just like he was an HB10.

start admiring his cloths.
"wow, your looking good tonight, love that shirt!" (sarcastic tone while rubbin up all up on his shit)

ask personal questions.
"what brings you down to paradise tonight?!"
"you have a girlfriend man?"
no..
"well lets change that, and start introducing him to girls.
"you must be like a doctor with all that confidence!"

play the player
"this is *** shes a rocket scientist!!"
"you know that hb over theres been giving you ioi's!"

*kino her while doin so*


start choden him hard for even considering coming to fuck with your game. if the girls still balls deep in the guy and he ends up gettin her, give em a high five.

of course there are circumstances, the player could be a long old friend with feelings toward your girl. or he can be some asshole that came outta the blue tryin to get his nut.