I've been studying pickup since I was 16 and have a pretty good amount of notes, I'm 18 now and needless to say I've only practiced what I learned about 3 or 4 times throughout that time. I notice that when I'm at a party and all these people who know nothing about pickup can continue and start the best conversations and I try to learn from them but I always just end up putting myself down and getting jealous. All I want is to be the life of the party and as a shy person throughout my life just starting to come out my shell I still don't know how to be a good conversationalist...any advice?

Well everyone is more jealous then the other or in the other way around if u know what i mean.

I can remeber a relation i had with a girl. We played a game togheter with a guy friend of her and he kept calling her sweetie and all of these kinda names, i got annoyed fast of him and told him to stop.

These days i hardly get jealous at all, im very calm and relaxed about things.

What i did to stop being jealous? Hard to say, i think by just stop caring about what a girl does. I mean you are the most important not her, remember that!

For another example, week ago i k-closed a girl and started doing day 2 gaming on her, she is kinda cute, and because of that i do get excited when i get a new message from her. So i can see if she would kiss some1 else while im trying to get her, i would be very dissapointed and ofc jealous.

A other girl i dated in the begin of this year, texted me on 1 night saying a other guy asked her out. I felt a bit jealous, but still texted back to her the line ''Thats nice for you!''.

She replied after that she said no to the guy because of me, a week later i F-closed her, after that i became immume to jealous. Why? Because i slept with her. and i think the same happens when i F-close that girl im after now.

But anyways i hope it was a nice read for you.
If you need info about how to have conversations i advise u to go to the Mid game subforum!

Goodluck!

just don't take women that serious.
Treat them like the little girls they are.
Don't get jealous! Just move on the the next girl!

Make chit chat with people in public. Talk about the weather, what they are wearing that caught your eye, what ever. The more you do this the better you get at it and easier you will find it to converse with others.
No. Its a human emotion that you can not suppress and lock away. You can take measures to reduce it, but you can never prevent it from happening.

I get jealous a great deal and I can switch in an instant (but not really get angry but get subdued). I guess sometimes you just walk away compose yourself and then come back and "ignore" it.

I dont get jealous from people having nice things or a better car or a bigger house or more money i guess its jealousy stemming from perceiving that that particular person is better than me. That I guess is a confidence issue.

So I think jealousy is a confidence thing i.e. thinking that that particular person is better than you when infact you ought to be thinkin that you are better than anyone else and not only that but even ignoring that issue.