ok...i stopped at her house again last night...intimate again but no sex..woke up had cup of tea with dad and brother who are really friendly..(they actually know she has a bf but both know he is a dick to her) like she told me she was getting ready to go out the other night she was singing in front of the mirror and he told her to shut up!! i swear i want to kill him lol....back to the point when i left she came to the door i say come here gimme a kiss! and she sayd she felt bad and didnt give me one..so i just gave her a hug................................

i got home with a bit of a messed up head and i asked her why wouldt she kiss me..''so you regret last night now then?''

her--''i dont regret it just i feel like a really shit person and dont want to be that person (but i dont know there is something about uuu i just cant help it u seem to nice to be true''

i will probably see her out this sunday night any suggestions on what i should do???
p.s she is the most honest person i have ever met..i could ask her anything and she would tell me..i dot know if this will work at my advantage at all..

Honest enough to dick around with you when she has a boyfriend?
Lol, you're like the gay friend she tells this shit too. And not much different either. She's telling you all these horrible stories and you sit and listen intently on every word while she nails him like there's no tomorrow...

Ignore this bitch, im dead serious. Dont meet up with her every other night, dont take her out, and I'd stop going over her house this instance unless you're GUARANTEED to have your wiener touched. Just think about it, he's SUCH a dick, yet she still sees him. Most likely still fucks him like they were a brand new couple.

What does she lack in this relationship? ATTENTION. Attention she gets from you. Attention she knows she doesn't need to put out for to get. Disappear. When she invites you over, tell her no. Fuck it! You can tell her what's really going on. Tell her, "Well, since you're not sure what to do I'll just make it easier for you. Call me when you're ready to stop playing games" Why do people get themselves in these situations and have no clue what's going on?...4t53

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I had the exact same impression immediately upon reading that sentence.

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I agree with the 2 post above.

This is an AFC mistakes. She likes are boyfriend that is why she is with him. Your in the friend zone.

Damn! I can agree with all the above posts, lol. You're a pussy in this situation, OP.

Lmao, this forum is fuckin awesome.

haha ok i realise what im doing is wrong..and i now agree with your comments...but would anyone offer me advice on how to take her off him (boyfriend destroyer)

Here is my suggestion, and its a strong one--read "How to Be the Jerk Women Love" by F.J. Shark. You can find it online as an eBook in PDF or HTML format.

Let me give you a short rundown of a story he told. This girl he knew, gamed her boyfriend who was 2nd choice to his friend, the guy she really wanted. Well, he gamed her back by cheating on her, and it drove her crazy. FJ Shark broke it down to her what he did and was doing to her. Did it help her see the light? Here is the answer. She agreed with him! And when F.J. Shark asked her if she saw herself marrying him after he explained it all to her, and she said she totally saw that in their future.

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