hi guys
this is the first time i ask for help,and write in this forum,which is by the way a lot helpfull and very well done.
going back to my situation:There is this hb 10(i mean it) that is a friend of a girl i know,but not very much.i saw her on facebook in a photo on my friend's profile and i added her as a friend. strangely i never saw her in the reality(i live in a small city)......she is very good looking,a lot of men go after her,but strangely she is still single,she is two years smaller than me.

for you guys,what should be the best way to get this girl(i'm a bit too direct ).....beause there are a lot of others who try to seduce her,and i don't want to be one of the many.......to be honest i don't really know where to start,strange but true .

thanks

edo

Start with a message on fb. Use C&F. One I like to use is
"Hey, I saw you were on my suggested friends list, but I'm pretty selective about who I add and wanted to make sure you were more than just a pretty face. What about you would make me want to add you?"

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why don't you ask ur mutual friend to introduce you guys?

Wow @ this. Even if you do get her number, you'd be too scared to call her. Waste of thread if you ask me.

Go and game women that you can not only see, but touch.

don't be so negative!

I try to game HB10 too in order to improve my game.
If you start on the hardest level you will improve faster, I guess

It's just a game.

Why are you misleading him? This guy added a HB10 on facebook, and he doesn't even know her. This is not game. This is "I'm afraid to talk to women that look like you in real life, so I'm just going to add you." And I guarantee you that she will be able to tell.

If you must meet this girl, ask a mutual friend to set something up.

okay, so I didn't want to mislead him.

I just didn't think that it's that much of a problem to get to know her in real life.

So....just try to get to know her trough your mutual friend and don't care about that.
She's nothing special. Just a regular HB10...most of the really hot chicks I know a extremely boring. They just rely on their looks.
As Mystery always tells them; Beauty is very common. It's a great personality that makes somebody special.

HB10s accept my friend requests because I'm incredibly good looking. Maybe edo's the same way. You never know. Don't downplay online game, even David DeAngelo recognizes it's usefulness. The only way it hurts you is if it stays in cyberspace. As long as it quickly moves to the real world it's a great tool.

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^^100%

What's everyone ragging on this guy for?? He didn't say he lives on the computer. He seen a girl on there, and doesn't know where to find her in living form. So what other option does he have but to run some online game with her??

2 of the best booty calls I ever hooked up, were girls I met online. So I wouldn't knock it.

hi guys sorry but i was a bit busy with studying and couldn't reply

actually i'm not scared to speak with this girl or any other girl 'cause at the end they are human and don't think they want to kill me so i'm not scared of her.

vik u just got the point.......i added her on fb cause i saw her in one photo of a girl i know,but as i said not too much,and because i can't find her in real life......u know it's a bit hard and maybe crazy to go and search for a girl around the city,and a waste of time too.

my problem is that i don't want to be one of the hundreds of men that write to her in fb and in real life they are scared or they do everything she wants to be nice...thats just slavery in my point of view.......

i talked to my mutual friend and talked to the girl too on fb few days ago,but the conversation was very short because i had to go to meet some friends,but i made her laugh,at least from what she wrote........the thing is that as i never gamed online i don't actually know now from where to continue,even because i was in a hurry i didn't like gave her a reason to continue our conversation.....my mistake :S

kobe i am now going out with other girls and meet new ones but if i never met her in real life this is my only possibility to start something.........and from fb i think u must be original cause u are not face to face,but u are behind a pc and can't comunicate feelings and body language.

Im going to Have to second this shit right here ^

You're obessesing over a chick you have never met in person... thats pretty creepy bro. And i mean that in the least judgemental way possible.

Get off your ass and Go meet Real Women

actually i'm not obsessed with this girl....i'm already going out with other girls,but beacouse i saw her,and at least from what i saw she is very beautiful,at least her aspect,i would SPAM know her......... i'm not in one-itis or going after a virtual girl

For starters you are NOT too direct because you have not even met or talked to this girl. You are being too wimpy and timid.

And the fact that you are intimidated by all the other guys trying to seduce her and saying, "I don't want to be one of the many..." Means that you are considering being all wussy and trying to worm your way into being one of her girlfriends.

BAD IDEA!!!!!


Get away from the computer and get out and start meeting flesh and blood women in real life. If you think they are attractive be a sexual male around them and flirt with them, tease them, make sexual innuendos and sexual comments to them and treat them like sexual beings.

Perfect. You don't want it to turn into a FB friendship, you want to see her in person or getit off the computer ASAP. When you have to run out right away, you can just say something like "Hey, I gotta run to meet some friends. Just shoot me a text sometime at 555-xxxx"

She will either text you or she won't. If she does, then voila you now have her number and can grease her a bit until you can find out where to meet her. If she doesn't, then you can rip on her a bit next time you speak on FB.