Hey, my name is Alex, im a 6foot 3 Australian. im 17 years old, and still at high school.

ive never even kissed a girl, and even though my friend group has a fair few girls in it. i'd like to learn how to get a girl that i want.

cheers, i just here to learn.

Great stuff Alex! What i wish someone told me back in high school was to pull the trigger more often.

If your getting signs from girls they like you, go for the kiss or ask them to go and do something fun.

To tell if a girl likes u, she usually laughs a lot at what you say even if its not that funny. also she will play with her hair a lot.

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thanks for your advice. I did ask a girl out last week. i figured she liked me enough to go on a date with me but she said

"I don’t know how to write this, but I don’t think I can go out with you, I’ve had a lot of time to think about it today, but I see you to much as a mate. I’m so sorry that I agreed half heartedly, in that moment I thought I could go out with you but, I just have to many conflicting feelings to get in to a relationship right now. I know this all sounds like utter bullshit, but I know myself, and I don’t want to hurt you by leading you on."

i figured, theres plenty more fish in the sea. but still it wasn't great because it was the first time i asked a girl out.

anyway, i've been looking at a lot of these posts on how to get started, also been reading a few books and watching some videos, so i know that soon enough i will be able to get a girl i like.

Hey man, things can only get better from here. You took the first step and that is the hardest one.

The girl gave you a long response which means she does like you as a person. A much worse response would have been 'no'

Don't make it a big deal if a girl says no. 'no big deal' There are millions of other fish in the sea.

What i like to do instead of saying, 'do you want to go on a date?' Is have something fun to do instead where its cool and you have physical contact and have a lot of fun doing. I hate dinner and movie unless i really want to see the movie and i already slept with the girl.

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yeah the problem i have is, she said yes the night before and changed her mind the next day. lucky for me i have a mate who has decided to go on this journey with me.

im looking forward to this.