Hey guys,

How’s it goin? As the headline say - I moved a couple of month ago to the sates and now work here. I'm 26 and life near Royal Oak.
Usually I never had problems with girls... it all somehow came by itself and I had a good yearly count I would say. Then I got into a longer relationship which really killed me. I drop all my ‘special’ girlfriends and was really bad in love with her. Never had something like this before and as u can imagine… it was very bad for me when we broke up. (the funny thing is… I broke up with her, because of my own f**king stupidness)
However… I got a new girlfriend and tried to replace her… as u can imagine… didn’t work.
So now I’m back in the game but somehow it just wouldn’t work. I always was a little bit fat, but as I said, never had problems with girls. Now I’m in the best shape since I ever can imagine and have the best looking clothes in the whole club when I go out. (still don’t look like a perfect surferboy with a sixpack and so on)
I read a few books and watched hundreds of videos so I know how it should work… but … but I just can’t apply it and really get into the Game. Especially alone it’s very hard in my opinion...
Hope I find some help here and get some good advices.

Happy to find my way to this site.

It's on...

Servus Kollege,

würd mir da keinen Stress machen. Die wenigsten Amis in deiner Gegend ham nen Plan was Mode betrifft. Zumal dein Dialekt die Arbeit abnimmt, scheissegal was du von dir gibst. Geh einfach allein weg, laber den Barkeeper an, texte mit irgendwelchen Leuten um locker zu werden. Der Rest kommt dann von alleine.

Hau rein.

Danke fuer den Tip! Hab dir mal ne PM geschrieben...

Welcome to Michigan. I live in Plymouth, myself. Royal Oak is a beautiful area and a there's a lot of really beautiful women there. You shouldn't have too much trouble if you just go out. I went to a bar in Royal Oak with some friends and a chick who was playing me for a AFC. I went outside in frustration and end up getting enough play to make her seriously jealous. I never get play like that. That area is just awesome. Maybe you should find some chick friends to go out with?

Also, whatever they said ^.

Yeah... some chick friends... sounds like a good plan, but how to get

To wich bar have u been in Royal Oak? Black Fin, Commune...

There are a few good locations... but also a lot of nose up girls with a 1 to 10 (Girl Man Rate) at the clubs/bars.

I don't remember. It was like 5 years ago and she picked the bar. Still, I met this chick outside the bar in front of a Denny's or something across the street. I think she was in the bar before, but she was pretty cool.

Anyways I know what you mean about snobbish. There's a lot of money in the Royal Oak area. Maybe if you explored the area some. Metro Detroit is a really big area and there's all sorts of little cities crammed right next to each other for miles and miles. You should be able to find something that matches your vibe a little better. I promise you there's places where the men don't outnumber the women 10 to 1. It's Detroit. Nobody lives in Detroit anymore, but a hell of a lot of people like around it.

As far as female wings go, maybe you could find someone you work with who will go out with you in such a fashion? Or, join social circles around things you like. You have to have met at least a few people, right? Develop some friendships.

Ok, I hope they don't read that... I got already plenty of friends... there is just one problem... GIRLS

Yes, they all have girlfriends or are not ready yet to play the game. Also when we go out, there is often a big group and I don't want them to make fun about me, if I should get a blowout.
Next point, they don't know the rules of the game... so if I spotted a girl I try everything to ignore her, don't look at her and wait for the right moment to approach. Then they spot her and wtf are pointing at her and start talking about her right in front of her... sry, impossible to game with them in my opinion.

I will try this weekend to get my stuff together and then train next weekend...

Thx for any help so far... great community here.