So I asked out a girl I work with and ended up coming on too strong. After I asked her out and before I came on too strong, she showed lots of interest even though she has a LDR 3 hours away. Both were huge mistakes as I was blinded by a very irrational oneitis, as i figured out i dont like anything about her.

Now the only time she talks to me is if I engage the conversation, but whenever she talks about me in a group she randomly mentions my strengths in non work chat, which is confusing to me.

It seems as if I displayed such LV that she no longer feels the need to converse. When I neg, she always comes up with answers like "so what, who cares, ect".

Anyone know a good way of bringing her down a few levels so that she actually engages? Im completely over her but i still have to work with her. Shes probly a 5.5, 23yo, What I like to call a princess attitude, as in everyone is there for her and always wants to be the center of attention, and also quite immature.

Suggestion would be very much appreciated.

So you're over her, she's only a 5.5 and she's immature... Why do you even care?

Thanks for the reply,

Its just the fact that I still work with her and find it incredibly annoying when anyone can sit there like a douche and only interact with certain people. She used to engage but doesnt anymore, im looking for "normal".

This is also good experience for getting uninterested/unresponsive girls to start engaging in any situation just for the social aspect of conversation.

"Act like you own it". In this case, act if everything is normal...When you think about it, it is normal. She's just mind fuc**** you. Don't act like she is your best friend but just casual chit chat like you would have with any other person you don't really talk to.

"Hi how are you?"

If she doesn't answer to that, she is really immature and she'll feel like an idiot because you just said "Hi". Just don't play her game.

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I wouldn't bother, she doesn't sound like anything special even if she thinks she is.

Hey Spike,

We can chat no problem if i start up a conversation, but she for some reason wont start one up. I can understand that it is a game, im just having a hard time understanding why shes playing it. Possibly because I devalued myself and the only way shes going to engage in a conversation is if i start one, somehow thinking shes too good for me. We had good time yesterday, we both laughed and smiled at each other alot and then she switches off again for no apparent reason. Could these reactions also be that shes uncomfortable or nervous with me, its been 2 months.

thx for the advice, but no need to act, I own this.

I agree, thx man

No problemo

I'm sorry, but this is a really pathetic question. You have you're whole thinking wrong. I say stop dicking around and be SEXUAL [/size] with her. No need to neg, no need for all that other bullshit.

Talk dirty to her. Just say, "I'd fuck you hard, you're just pretty to me. Sorry but it's better that we don't talk anymore."

So your saying she doesnt start conversations with me because she wants me to be more sexual towards her?