Ok, so on facebook talking to a girl, i know her, bearing in mind i do this face to face aswell.

I tease her, on this girl she is short-ish, For example:

Me:do you not wanna drive??. · 18:55
Her:yea i do but i just havent got round to doing it yet .. ill probs start once college finished · 18:57
Me:And don't forget you need to buy a booster seat .

now i do this to all women, now is there anyway to explain why i do this, do any of you do this? Is it just because i'm a childish fuck and need to grow the fuck up???

Please help guys, cos i dont know whether im just being a dick

I'm no expert so I'm probably talking sh*t but it could be a bit of immaturity on your part or more likely a part of you is wanting to sabotage yourself could be down to nerves or something completely different?

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i'm not trying to sabotage it, cos i wouldn't be talking to her if i was trying to offend her :L She and other girls SEEM to laugh (self concious if they are just laughing but saying in there head "you prick"

I meant you might be sabotaging yourself subconsciously. Talking to women is the easy bit we do it every day without thinking about it until that is we meet one we like and a lot of the time those little "put downs" are an easy way out.

My advice and I'm probably going to get shot down here by someone who "knows better" is if you ever feel like you're acting like a dick to a woman then apologise to her it's not a sign of weakness and can keep the woman talking to you. Something like "Sorry I hope you don't think I'm being a..." if she tells you she's not offended then great if she is and she hasn't walked away from you or blocked you from her Facebook page then you still have a chance to turn things around.

Btw if you're swapping messages online (facebook, chat rooms and the like) you also need to remember that what you type can be misread. Sure putting in a smiley can help the reader understand however the other person may take what you're saying at face value i.e. a joke or go absolutely ballistic which is why I prefer face to face or voice chat.

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