Hi guys. Im new to the site, and figured this was a good place to ask for some advice.

Im a 26 year old male, who read the game about 4 years ago. Prior to reading the game, I was a virgin. I was always considered shy and a bit introverted, but I did come out of my shell a bit after reading the book.

I have never had a problem talking to girls as I have always had sisters. Its just that I was always in the friend zone. Ever since reading the game I feel I have cut myself off from having girls that are just friends.

Now, I am no longer a virgin, but to say Im a player is a huge exaggeration. Its wierd cause hot girls will now approach me just because of little things I have changed about myself. I started going to the gym, I dress better, and my body language is pretty good as well.

The problem I face now is being in the moment and leading the situation anywhere. I have a phase shifting problem. I have massive anxiety when it comes to moving the situation to the next phase. For instance, the other day I met a really cute girl who was giving me a ton of IOIs, but I just couldnt ask for her number. When I do get the number I dont know what to do next. THe only girls I have slept with are ones who came back with me and my friends in groups. Once a girl comes back, I have no problem with kino escalation and the whole deal.

So I guess my question is, what do I do? At the very least, I wanna at least sleep with girls I know are attracted to me. I dont like complicating things with going after girls that are already taken or might not even show an initial attraction. I simply beat myself up over girls that show me massive interest and I just have no idea how to follow through.

Dont go easy on me guys, Im here to learn.

Spend a little time browsing round the forum, there are tons of links and advice dotting round the place.