What do you guys think of women who only have guy friends? I know this girl with one girl friend that she rarely hangs out with...but she hangs out with all kinds of guys. She doesn't sleep with guys often, and says she enjoys being single. She has a kid.

Well one reason i can think of is since she has a kid most girls can't relate to her and well guys kid or not will game on any HB so i think shes using the guys to DHV amongst others and the guys could be interested in her or the few friends she has.The guys could also be using her to DHV thier value aswell.

I can't get a read of this girl for the life of me. She definitely doesn't give off many IOIs or anything like that and while she's hanging out with other dudes, she claims she hasn't been dating for a year. I'll probably just have to come out and tell her I want to get with her and do all that escalation stuff I read about on here, I've already been called a great friend...so that's where that is.

I have a friend very like this, minus the kid. Her reason for it is that women are bitchy and gossipy and she's been like this since high school.

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I don't really like this sort of situation at all.

I was recently seeing a girl of which 90% of her friends were guys, because 'girls are so bitchy'. The thing is, she was fairly flirty with all of them, which made me uncomfortable.

When she uploaded mobile photos onto facebook at 2am in the morning of one of her mates in her bed, I knew it was time to call it a day, and therefore I deleted her number/her off facebook today, i'm not being taken for a mug - that's my job.

To conclude, I personally will always have doubts over these sort of girls. And from my experience, so should you!

She could be fucking all of them. Why not join the crowd and get your jollies off too?

A slut's not going to turn into a one-guy-gal without something drastic happening like having a kid or getting herpeghonasyphilaids. Even then that doesn't always change them.

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The more guy friends, the lower her self esteem.

She likes attention.

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NEVER BELIEVE WHAT A WOMEN TELLS YOU!

The whole, "women are bitchy blah blah" is TRUE, but NOT the reason...


This is becoming a phenomena with many women...It is CLEAR why they do this...

These girls are always semi to moderately attractive...you don't find many 8's or up with this issue...

So, these pretty girls surround themselves with all these guys that WOULD fuck her if she wanted to. However, she will not, except MAYBE at first, then adds them into her little clique. I had a girl like this. After 2 months of fucking on and off, she invited me one night with her "friends" and they were all dudes...literally, 6 dudes and her. I started questioning some of the guys, how they knew her...etc. ALL of them, except 1 (who was married) had fucked her. She was trying to assimilate me into her "friends..." DIDN'T HAPPEN

Girls like this surround themselves with guys because they get the ATTENTION they long for WITHOUT having to be vulnerable. Andddd, guaranteed, the guys she is hanging around are all pretty good looking guys!

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I remember my ex being like this. She told me the same thing about bitchy girls (even though she had her "reasons" due past experiences) and she had low self-esteem. Now this chick was an 8 and she got a lot of attention and would go nuts if I didn't tell something sweet because "everyone else did". Really fascinating, thought she was unique in this matter.

So how do you fuck a girl like this if every other dude she hangs out with seems to have failed?

I think you just play the game like normal...just know, when they TRY to frame you as a friend, don't let it happen...if they ask you to hang with friends and they are all dudes...might be too late...

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That is the most accurate, truthful and spot on post I have ever read.

So would I be able to neg a girl like this by stating something along these lines to her...(ie...low self esteem, likes attraction, doesnt' want to be vulnerable) ?

Or would that be too much of an insult?

OH you must be a lesbian?

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If a girl has only guy friends, it usually means she craves attention.

A lot of times it the guys will generally be older than her, and if that is true, generally it means she is on bad terms with her father. Or her father just isn't "man enough" as society portrays to us.

A girl like this generally surrounds herself with old guys to feel more safe. Since there are no other girls, she has no competition to keep the attention from guys. This means she's insecure.

Girls like these are vulnerable to PUAs as we've been given the gift of negging. Often girls like these like to be surrounded by compliments and are used to getting them. Throwing in a neg will through her off her feet (and not all of the time but most she'll try to get your attention again in a positive manner).

Only problem with these kinds of girls is that, they priorities attention more than anything. If you don't keep the attraction up, she'll find other guys to get attention.

Chris Rock said it best: A platonic friend is basically a dick in a glass case: In case of emergency, break open glass