hey
This girl said she wanted to do something yesterday, so rang her twice but no answer, but she liked my facebook status?.now shes txt me tday, saying "call me plz mate x " so i didnt reply or call her! (as i was annoyed!!) ...........But the story goes..this girls mucked me around for a while, she normally just wants to talk to me on her break at work, which was around the time of the message tday, she's said to me lets just be friends a few months back (weve had sex plenty of times, then she lost attraction) i still like her tho..I was out on friday and saw her out and she joined me and my mates, in the club she cornered me outside and said why are u mugging me off dancing with other girls! and i said i thought u just wanted to be friends, and she said yeah lets just be friends then, and i called her out on it and said uve obviously got a problem with me with other girls..she played it down..

So im thinking she didnt answer yesterday because she lost some power to me by saying what she did? and she liked my fbook status to say im here but not answering..
to get her power back..

so what do u reckon guys, do i reply to her txt? call her? or leave it for a few days and see what she does..i sort of think if i call her she wont answer (just to play games)
and normally i would answer her or ring her..but i let this girl make all the effort now i hardly call her and speak to her when she calls me, as i feel shes using me a bit (friend zone)

i was maybe thinking of some kind of clever sarcastic txt back tnite?
or just one saying i was busy seeing someone else lol

cheers guys

Go fuck 10 other women, seriously. Either she's playing with you or she's uncertain of what she wants. Fucking 10 other women will give her time to make up her mind. Remain friends with her though, turn the tables a little...

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cool dude..i took one home on sat lol, and i may let her know about it.. should i txt her back? or leave it for a while?

I'd have kissed her instead of calling her our on the friends thing.

Leave it a day or two and reply but ignore the request for a call. Ignore all requests for a call. Certainly those that contain the words friend, mate, buddy, ect. That's not a call on your terms.

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Yeah definitely talk to her.

Here's my suggestion (inspired by Infamous), next time you're hanging out and have some alone time, say something like, "Hey, remember that conversation about the whole 'friends' thing?" then kiss her.

It'll let you know pretty quickly where you stand, but isn't absolute enough to be an ultimatum, so you might be able to revisit her later. If it doesn't work out, then go fuck 10 other women.

Though if she does kiss you, you'll probably want to assure her in your own way that you're not a manwhore while making her feel special, but not too special. You know?

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thanks guys, ill try the kiss again then, went for it last week and she sort of brushed me to the side..would it be fair to say, she doesnt want me but doesnt want me with anyone else?

since ive upped my game tho, from this site and u guys help, even those shes attention seeker, and sees other blokes..im slowly winning her back out the friend zone

It's a little lower risk when she is emotionally aroused but my guess would be that the brush wasn't anything more than token resistance as a test.

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GFTOG, oneitis is a terrible thing my friend!

And i'm sorry, but any girl who calls me 'mate' deserves to be bombed out anyway. I detest it when girls say that to me!

I would make her jelous. Jelousy is the spark of attraction. I liked a girl a lot and she kinda felt that I was trying...I'm sure she wanted me for validation and all the friend-zone benefits they get from guys. So one day, we were meant to meet up with mutual friends of ours and lied to her, cancelled and only said "I've got to go see someone", 2 minutes later she called my best friend who was next to me as I predicted. So I told him before hand that if she calls just tell her "I didn't say where I was going"....She was defintely jelous because "I went to see someone"....

Trust me guys, when you give a girl attention and you're not getting anything back from it (e.g. kept around for validation), doesn't matter if she's attracted to you, make sure you let her know that you're off to see someone else, or simply don't message her, it fucks up their mind...and its funny!

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