Hey ive been sarging with someone who is more attractive than me... and very confident and can open anyone with no problem...

Although i dont have as much success as him because of his looks... he can gain attraction straight away and all of the sets are into him because of his looks.!!

What can i do to try and gain some attraction?

You need to be seen as the Alpha of the two of you, the girls are placing higher value on him because of his looks so if you can frame that you're higher value than him it should trigger hard wired attraction circuitry in them, or at least construct an interesting social dynamic and leave everyone confused!

I've been in pretty much the same boat as you man and it was the most frustrating thing ever. Especially since my friend could not open anything and would rely on me to. Once I opened he would pretty much steal the target or get obnoxious if he found the girl was only paying attention to me.

Anyways point of my story is maybe try winging with another friend if you feel this way. I find I work a lot better when i'm with another friend or even by myself.

I say keep him. It'll get you the attention. What you need is to be the one with the sense of humor. Ultimately, they'll think he's nice to look at. But once you are in the set, and you are the one making them laugh, they'll quickly forget about his looks and consider him to be the more boring of the two.

The thing is to be able to work as a team. Whether better looking or not, you want to make sure singing together is beneficial for the both of you.

If he is getting all he advantages then talked to him about it. make sure you are not using his attractiveness as an excuse for parts of your game that need improvement.

Make sure it is win win for both of you.

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Shitty wing is shitty. Isn't it common knowledge that he who opens the set gets first choice?

It's not always bad to be the wing... If the attractive guy opens a 8/9 or a 9/10 set, and you're 'stuck' with the 8 or 9, are you really going to complain?

Anyway, if you want the hot chick, open the set. If he's a good wing, he'll fall in-step and talk you up like you're the best thing since sliced bread. A wingman relationship is symbiotic - you work together as a team.

And to be absolutely honest, if I were the hot guy and opened all the sets and you sat there and did nothing, I'd begin to get annoyed that I was doing all the heavy lifting and consider you dead weight and drop you. I'm not saying that's the case, but if it is, you need to work on it.

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Go it alone mate. Simple...

But I am new to this... what is sarging? Somebody please tell me what sarging is!!!!!

Sarging is going out with the intention to pick up chicks.

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i agree with the be the counterpart to your friend, yes looks may pull the girls in but once they see that YOU are the one that can talk/interact with them then they will pay attention to you.

@Charlie thank you mate

Focus on the strengths you have that he doesnt. Take control of the conversation more and your skills.

I once managed to take a girl home who was previously all over my mate for hours, just by chatting to her when he went to the bar. She clearly fancied him and he had an easy lay in his sights. She stoped talking to him and only talked to me afterwards. She wasnt even my 'type' or vice versa. You could say it was just one giant 'neg' but honestly I wasnt interested just bored and not talking to anyone else. I wasnt using any techniques at all just chatting and making her laugh and think.