i was texting this girl and i randomly asked, so what do you dislike about?
she- you're a little too arrogant
me-really? how so?
she-you think you know alot of things and people

could this be a problem i'm unable to hook in some girls?

i'm doing clubs events as a part time anyway.

what could be a good answer to this?

I've been told this same thing and didn't know what to think of it

You don't ask girls about their opinions towards you, that's seeking approval, and shows weakness;she will do it on her own.

Are you arrogant?

Are you too cocky?

are you faking it?


Only you have the answer to that, don't wait for others to tell.

Arrogance is knowing a lot of people? I'm confused.

I like being called things like this, but as above I think asking is bad.

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Yeah seeking approval is probably one of the worst things you could do, it shows your weakness and insecurities and almost suggest your willing to change yourself over what her reply is. In this case your actually questioning whether you really are arrogant or "too coccky" lol.

I've also received those sort of comments and I totally hate them, but it always turns out the girl telling me this always has some sort of negative feelings towards me. At that point I totally ignore them, initiating convos w. Her friends will probably get her jealous if she has been talking to you for a while then its possible that it really is that you come off too arrogant which is bad, but the way she put those statements I don't think you've reached a higher level of attraction w. Her and if she has negative feelings toward you from the start, you probably should just move onto the next one.

is she jealous? or feels uncomfortable. or have you been bragging? too much routines? I dunno the right answer, just throwing some ideas.