this girl and i, let's name her A. used to be danm close and fucked almost every night..
then one day some issues came up with her ex boyfriend wanting her back and stuff and A and i kinda drifted apart.Then she started becoming flaky and stuff..

I tried freezing her out for a month and she texted me out of the blue asking how i was and stuff. The first week was fine then she started becoming flaky again.

I'm really interested in her but I got no idea what to do or how to deal with her. I took all her bullshit when she was in a bad mood. but sometimes when i'm really irritated i'll just tell her off and stuff..

i made plans to make cheesecake together this friday, now she's pushing it forward as she wants to hit the club on friday night.

What should i do?

Sounds like your to available for her man.

Blow her off a few times, freeze her out again. Make her wonder what is so important that she is not the centre of attention any more.

Set a date with her, then push it back a day or so.

There is a trick I was taught to combat flaky girls,

Set a date in the near future perhaps 3-4 days away or so, and be precise about your time place and what you are doing, your busy so this time is the time that best suits you. Make sure it doesn't coincide with things she will like to do ie: Town, Work and etc.

Don't speak to her or try to keep contact to a minimal, much like a diet. Call her about I'd say 5 hours or so prior to your date.

This is the important bit, call her and say you've got something to do (make something up). Can you guys catch up like an hour or so after the time you guys set. This makes it easy, your half flaking on her. Spins the tables round very easily with very little effort. Plus works in your favour what ever the outcome, nine times out of ten they will set the next date if they can't come and they are a lot less likely to flake out on the next one.

Made this work for me all the time, yet to fail for me. From then on make sure you are gaming to the core, she sounds like she's loosing interest a little after catching up with you. Make sure you maintain those interest levels up!

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