I met a girl and she messaged me suggesting a date. But the message had some spelling errors and she said she was drinking. So I made a joke that if it wasn't for the spelling mistakes I would never of knwn she was drinking Haha. I went on to confirm the date.I was trying to be playful but she hasn't go back to me and Im afraid I insulted her. If I send another message should I tell hr I was just messing around? I know she's real smart that's why i said it

You did nothing wrong from the looks of it. Its possible shes just embarrassed now.

This is exactly the what I've been talking about. See, we are concerned with, "What if I insulted her?" But yet girls are never concerned with, "What if I insulted him."! Now that's some bullshit.

And an insult doesn't mean shit, it all depends on the person's self-esteem as well. You got some really dumb girls out there who take everything personally, even compliments. So I would not give a fuck if I've insulted any girl unless I knew that my direct intention was to insult her. If I say something that's not intended to be an insult and the girl takes it personally, I just back up my response with honesty. "Oh you assumed what my age was, that's very insulting." Me: "I just wanted to figure out when you graduated." And if she keeps bitching about it, it always ends with me saying, "It was a pleasure talking to you." See? No need to get all mad over someone's stupidity, keep it honest and nice and move on. "I am a free being. I say what I want, assume what I want, and think what I want." When you're like that, then the girl knows she can't break you. She hates that, but at the same time she likes it. Two-faced, I'm tellin ya.