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PostPosted: Sat Apr 23, 2011 1:39 pm 
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hey people i just have a short question.

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i read alot about eye-contact and stuff and how you notice when a girl thinks you are attractive and stuff..
but my problem is it seems like i never get any eye-contact.. and i mean from every woman
even ugly ones (yeh! i tryed it!)

its not that im ugly or not dressed properly or something.
could it be that i missed something about the inner game?
that i have to project something?

when i look at them i allways think.. wow your the kind of girl i want to learn more about!

i still have AA so i can't just walk up to them and talk with them but thats something i'm working on step-by-step

so do you guys have any suggestions?


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 23, 2011 1:58 pm 
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i have the exact same problem i cant seem to get eye contact most of the time sometimes i can i do have aa but i can approach but it would be alot easyer approachin if i had eye contact or a ioi so im intrested in the replies here too


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 23, 2011 2:47 pm 
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exacly!

well i have to admit
i have a pretty hard time smiling
this may sound a bit odd bit i think of my self i look more attractive with a neutral face then a smiling one.

i know woman aproach these things diffrently but still its a bit confusing
you see i get more 'interested' replies when having a neutral face on a picture then a smiling one.
or has this all to do with RL?

one things for sure i have a lot to learn! but thats why im here :)


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 23, 2011 3:34 pm 
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Where are you when you're trying this out? If you're walking on the street, randomly trying to catch eye contact with girls walking by you - you won't get a lot of success.

If you're in, for example, a club or another social setting - you will get lots more eyecontact and some of it will be pretty inviting and curious.

Which of course leaves you with actually approaching and opening the girl, because she won't drop her panties if you don't do that first.


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 12:33 am 
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Good body language and Good sense of style will help out a lot.


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 12:22 pm 
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Yeah bro.. I cant really relate because I get eye fucked all the time no matter where I go. It could be because I expect it now. It's like your seeking for approval by wanting eye contact and you have no intentions of talking to the girl anyway.

The best advice I can give it to get over yourself and talk to girls. What is it to be afriad of? What's more important to you: going out and meeting new exciting women or the butterflys in your gut that cuz you not to do it?


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 24, 2011 3:00 pm 
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well thats something i'm working on now.
you see i accually had some kind of social anxiety but that finally starts to disseapear
most of the time i say hi to almost everyone who passes by and i sometimes have little conversations at busstops and stuff
and i now start to approach diffrent girls with just small questions (like the time and where certain locations are) just to get a hang of the feeling.

alltough i think i still have to work alot on my innerself.


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