So my question is this, Do you guys have a moral limit for having sex with a girl or do you let the law define it?

In my state... a girl 16 and up can have full consensual sex... (she can be 16 and the guy can be 50).. Now I'm not 50, I'm 25 in fact... but if I gamed a girl and then found out she was 17.. is there some unwritten moral code that says she should be 18 and over, or should I just have fun while I'm not doing anything illegal.

What are your opinions?

I draw the line at 18, but in your case I'd say 25 and 17 isn't bad at all.

I've got a twelve year old daughter, in a few years, I certainly don't want her sleeping with a 25 year old man.

I personally don't let the law define the limit. I say 18, because regardless of "consent" below that you are technically sleeping with a "child". How does that make you feel?

Also, personally for me, 18 year olds are like kids to me. Literally, kids. I'm 30+.

I would probably put my cutoff at 20. Not because of the law, but because below that and that girl is a "girl" and somebody's daughter, not a woman. Mentally, emotionally, etc.

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I say, if she can't go to a bar with me (ie 21) It would be too weird!

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Can't argue with that.

If that's the law in your area then I don't see a problem. But it mostly comes down to what you think is right, and the attitude of the girl herself.

The rule I use for ages is this: (your age/2)+7 = youngest you can sleep with. So in TS' case: 25/2 = 12.5, 12.5 + 7 = 19.5. Since there's a decimal, I'd round up to 20.
You can also reverse it for the oldest you can go, i.e. (your age - 7)*2, so again in TS' case: 25 - 7 = 18, 18*2 = 36.

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I really like your system Sixpounder,
I guess being in the game makes you question different moral grounds (using openers and routines that bend the truth or even blatantly lie)
But if I give up too much of myself for the sake of the game I will end up becoming a social robot...
Normally I wouldn't even consider a girl under 20, but now that the focus feels like it's more on lays, seduction, and picking her up... rather than finding a "soul mate" (which I don't believe in anyway)... I naturally wondered if moral ground could actually be a LIMITING belief..
but when It comes down to it, I like the saying, "those who don't stand by their standards have none."
I'm setting my limit at 20.... ok 19.5