I've been frequenting clubs recently, mostly dubstep and raves, fast paced dance/house music. I usually go with friends but I most of the time separate from them to try to dance and talk with girls (something I'll admit I'm not comfortable doing in clubs), and use my friends as a regroup point to get my spirits up, etc.

Anyway I consider myself a good dancer, for the most part I get on the dance floor and just start dancing near some girls, and recently (I've been to a rave/club 3 times) girls have actually been making eye contact with me and smiling while dancing near me. Please don't laugh at me for probably missing out the obvious but is that an invitation to get close to them and dance with them? Especially if they're turning their bodies toward me when they're smiling and looking at me. I have a problem with dancing with girls, up until the first time I went to a club I never really felt comfortable dancing in public or on a dancefloor, but now it's becoming more natural and that's why I think girls are approaching me like this.

And what's good conversation in the patio/smoking areas of the club. I feel like outside of night/club environments I can be good at conversation but because clubs and raves have the potential to escalate sexually so quickly it freaks me out whenever a girl talks to me, something I have to get comfortable with I suppose.

But yea I've had girls the last time I went to the club ask if they could bum cigarettes, comment on something I'm wearing (I wear very out there stuff to these raves), ask me for some of my glowsticks, and one girl even came up to me as I was sitting down and said "hey I was gonna sit there" with a smile on her face, then sat right next to me. Obviously I should take all these as they want to talk to me, but I usually just say some snarky, smart ass response or compliment and don't talk to them anymore.

At a club could I just ask any girl to dance without even getting to know them.. say I see a girl alone and she seems to be having an ok/not so good time should I go up to her and be like "lets go dance" with a smile on my face?

I basically have no night game at clubs/bars/raves and am looking for advice on how to approach and interact with women successfully.

Yes you can go up to a girl and tell them they can dance good and ask them how the do that and after that saying that they should dance with you!

Worked for me sometimes.

But i would not recommend to ask a girl thats not in the mood to dance.

But you got to learn the moments and the activities people are doing in a club.
That all comes with experience in clubs by going out.

When you learn the moments u learn how to open it.

As a example,
When i see girls standing near the dancefloor wich are not dancing, then i ask why such cute girls as they are not dancing or something similiar.

When i see a girl at a bar, i go sit next to her to order a drink and ask them what they are getting.

These are situations i feel very comfortabel in because i did them before and know how to handle it.
In other terms i do find it a bit hard to open on a dancefloor, like what do you say to them etc.

Some other side notes :


Chit chat, no big long conversations.
Fast escalation.
You should K-close a girl in a club around 15min within opener otherwise u lose attraction.

And i would advise ''60 Years of Challenge'' for night game.

Goodluck, i hope it helped!