So my name's Dustin, 23. I'm a pretty good looking guy (or so I've been told by many). My only feat that I can say I've had is a threesome. I am fairly shy but have chatted with probably 20 girls in the past year (to no avail). It really doesn't make much sense to me. Everybody thinks that I can get girls readily, but then when I try, somehow I always get rejected. So I live in the Athens Metropolitan area. I need to get my game on (lol it's been a year and a half since my last time). Are there any smooth guys out there who want to show me the ropes or what not? Private message me if anyone's feeling up to it...

Don't you think it's weird calling yourself a loser? C'mon cheer up.

I'd suggest you don't introduce yourself as a loser, it gives a false idea of your self right away, so (even if you are a loser) DON'T DO THIS.
You are an AFC, not a loser.

First of all, I think you should read some e-book, books or watch videos about PUA just to get familiar with the game. However, don't turn into a reading machine. Some guys never stop searching for new information, new way to open, escalate, etc.

Find a method that suits you, and TRY IT OUT. Don't just learn it and assume it will work.

That being said, here's some information you should check out.

Since you are here, you probably already know Mystery, AFC Adam and Gambler.
I think you should take a little time to see their methods.

Personally, I think the PUA that fits better for me is Gambler and Nick Sparks. They both talks a lot about body language.

I also recommend you reading the escalation latter, by Vin Di Carlo. You will learn a lot by reading these couples of pages.

Finally, Sex God, by Daniel Rose, is also really interesting. I promise you you will learn priceless information reading that book!

Anyways, If you have any question, feel free to hit me up!

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I'd also recommend Mehow's "Get the Girl!" and other stuff. His style relies a lot on being wacky-cocky-funny, and I like his own takes on common PUA terms. He also has lots of infield videos to learn from.

Well said. What we say and think of ourselves much more powerful than we think.

Hey thanks for the advice. I'll definitely look into that stuff. I take it no one here is anywhere near Atlanta or Athens. Ehh it's not a big deal, hell I almost forgot about this forum since my mind is everywhere. It's true I shouldn't call myself a loser. It was only in a joking way and I'm not sensitive and am fairly confident, so it doesn't phase me.

I'm 10 minutes new here, but suggest that you take a different look at your self labeled 'loser' tag - you are here, acknowledging your desire to do something different for better results and making an effort. I'd say that you are already well in front of the other real losers out there who are not doing anything and will continue to stay in exactly the same confused place with no hope of change.

give yourself permission to come up with a different label - how about "hard working learner with a ways to go"? HWLWAWTG? ya, thats it! keep working, ever forward

Well said.

It's the most important thing by far.

I think you'd get further reading some philosophy and general life improvement than trying to get into game via an un-natural route, cause it seems you can obviously introduce yourself and talk to girls, so it's probably more rejection based on the vibe you're giving than what you're saying.

This.