Basically I watched a few youtube videos about dance floor game (credit: www.flirt2thebeat.com)

So at the club, down stairs I was having a few drinks with my mates, then 11pm rolled around and they opened upstairs, so me and my mate all pumped went up there as fast as we could and just went spastic on the stage not giving a care in the world, and these 2 girls (HB 6 and HB7) start dancing around the stage with us, my mate tries to slowly move in to the HB 7 but she moves towards me, and at this stage im just putting on my best dance moves I have and she starts dancing closer to me and smiles, so I think of the ( chiefs-guide-to-outer-game-vt75887.html?highlight= ) Credit: Chief )
anyway I grab her hand and spin her around, and she really enjoys it, so I thought I would take a massive leap and see if she would kiss me on the cheek for letting me spin her, anyway I totally miss read her and she started making out on the side of my face, then she noticed it was the side of my face and she thought I was rejecting her, (but went so fast in my head I was thinking o now ill see if she hugs me) so she hugs me then her friend grabs her after seeing the whole thing go down, and her friend is like I will see you around sexy, but after that I think we both got too many excuses in our heads not to continue.


Any advice out there on how I could have know she wanted to kiss, because for me I was shocked I had only been dancing with her for 30 seconds.

Congrats on the confidence to go and dance. When I go out with my mate, who is skinnier and less attractive than I am, I have this crazy thought that if I dance with girls, I will hurt his feelings because he will see me with girls and will feel bad about himself not get any girls. Crazy thoughts like that. Good for you that you don't have those thoughts.

This girl is probably telling her friends the next day, "omg, i had a few drinks and I made out with a random guy!"

Her friend cockblocked her, girls will often pull their friends away from guys at night clubs.

Try not to read the girls' thoughts - what you are thinking about her feeling rejected - that might just be you projecting your own feelings/fears of rejecting on to her. I doubt you could have made her feel rejected in 30 seconds, it is not like you pushed her away or turned your back on her. If she looked like she was being rejected, the friend would not cock block her. She probably got pulled away because she was doing the opposite - feeling drawn into your claws.

When the dance floor just opens at 11pm, there are girls on the side lines. They will often dance with the brave non creepy guys who are first on the dance floor. After about 30-45 minutes, the dance floor fills up, and 1.5 hrs into it, the ratio is way heavy on the male side and the girls are all bunched up and have been hit on many times by different guys. It is when the dance floor just open, the first hour is the best time to approach girls, since they have not been scared by all the extra males in the crowd and by all the approaches.

But why are you trying so hard to make out with drunk girls? A girl who will make out with a stranger on the dance floor is kinda slutty. I know a guy who slept with a different woman every day the first few weeks he started approaching girls at night clubs. These women cannot resist temptation and mistake sex with love. The reason I know is that these women were not happy with just casual sex, they got jealous and started fighting with each other. It's all "bar culture" and "high risk sexual behavior"

I think that dating women and having relationships with women is different from hooking up with women at night clubs and bars. Because guys who have always been good at dating women often are scared and clueless in night clubs and do not dance. Whereas guys who hook up with night club girls often have not had a girlfriend for years. This is just my assumptions though.

The time when I had success with night club girls, I danced near them first face to face, then I put my hand on their waste and pulled them in. I was playful and tried imaginative and affectionate moves. I felt like I developed trust this way. Some girls just want to dance and do not want you to put your hands all over them. Other women are dying for you to touch them and want you to go home with them and have sex. Other women want to dance playfully, rub against each other, and then go on a dinner meal date.

Personally, I think it is good for anxiety and just self development to have fun in a nightclub without using alcohol or other drugs as a crutch, but as far as finding dates, I found it takes so many days of going out to get a date and the women are flakey. I think it is an illusion that women go to nightclubs to find a boyfriend, in fact, I think that women at night clubs are mostly not available for dating.

Only thing was that she was completely sober. I saw a few other guys get with her and she just rejected them.

Props on the dancefloor spasms and all that jazz

when a chick proximites on the dancefloor she's subtly suggesting that she wants you to approach her in some way or another...(even though this may not be 100% accurate, just believe it is. It will get you approaching more confidently consistently...remember, always have the mindset that your the dogs bullox, your shit hot, and women wanna fuck you).

when she drifts away from a guy and closer to you, you've just hit the dancefloor 'pussy' jackpot. She wants you and you better dive in there and catch that fish like a pro! From this point forth, its pretty simple...escalation, escalation, escalation. By that, I mean ramp up the kino and get her where she wants to be...HORNY AND WET. She'll love you for escalating, and in most cases will reciprocate the kino. When she does, put your hand behind her hair, gently hold the back of her neck...and move in slowly for the kiss. If you wanna spot whether she's ready to kiss you or not - look for lip licking / lip biting, if she allows you to gently caress her ass then she's reached a hightened state of arousal...at this point she'll usually accept the kiss close 85% of the time!

When the 'cock block' tried to bail her chick out of the interaction, you needed to immediately throw value at the 'cock blocker' to disarm her bitch shield and revert her attention to you. Dont give 'excuses' the time to creep into your brain and baffle your logical thought. Act fast. Hope it didnt waffle on too long, now go get'em!!