Hi all,


First things first. I'm 19 years old and a junior in college majoring in Physics/Math. I DJ and tutor on the side to make money. I recently became interested in all this a little over 6 months ago when my roommate showed me the book "the game". Initially I was very excited/interested in all of this and still am and decided to become a part of a forum to chat with people. I've always been a shy nerd with no confidence, but lately that has been changing. Especially since I've been going to college. No one knows anything about me, which is great and I am not too worried what people think since there are about 10,000 students. Reading a few books helped too. So heres the dilemma (i'll try and keep it brief):


Met this girl a while back at a party through a mutual friend. We exchanged numbers and began texting a lot (yes, I realize I should have prob talked on phone). A few days later we hung out. She came over, cooked dinner (and bought it) and then we watched a movie, made out, and we both fell asleep for a little bit. We hung out again a week later but she had to leave after an hour for some emergency (I bought dinner this time). Then a few days later she texts me and says she just wants to be friends ( she knew I liked her, the mutual friend told her). I said okay no big deal, doesn't really affect me (kind of a lie). Anyways she texts me a few days after this apologizing asking if I was mad (I quit texting her). Then we start texting for a few days as "friends" and I let her know I slept with some very attractive girl (long story, but true). Her response was "woaahhh too much information" and then we small talked for a few days. A few days ago she asks if I want to hang out soon,I agree and I am supposed to go to her dorm (college 15 mins away form mine) to hang out. She told me she wants a fully body massage when we hang out lol. This is happening tonight (Friday the 22nd). She has been texting me almost every day since I agreed to hang out, and was before then too almost.The questions I have:

Is it possible to get out of the friends zone? Am I really in the friends zone with her? Should I have sex with her? What kind of relation ship should I expect from her? girlfriend, friends, friends with benefits....?

I wouldn't mind a relationship with this girl and I still have feelings for her, but I also wouldn't mind a friends with benefits situation either(maybe).

Also, she plays very hard to get. She isn't afraid to let me know she has other guys she could hang out with if I ditch her (which may or may not be true). I negged her a lot during the beginning too.


Thanks for any comments

Yes. No. Yes. A complicated one.

Continue indifference and escalate accordingly.

_________________

I'm a winner - I am going to win.

Thank you for the response and taking the time to read my post

I was thinking the same thing, its always nice to have reassurance though! I'll post the results at the end of the night.