Back to Field :

After 15 day , yesterday was the 1st time in field.
Did 2.5 approaches @ Garuda mall.
Near MG Road. Bangalore.(India)

The 1st one was an IB6.
Was standing near the railings and looking down.

ME: (in a casual tone) Hey, Where is William Penn.
IB6: she thought something. and She showed me, Down there
ME: Thanks.

Could have taken it further by saying something like " Are you from bangalore.Any place for entertainment, bangalore is a boring place ."
Or something similar. Next time ill try that.

Next was an IB8
She was looking at some gifts, in a near by gift shop.
The shop keeper was not around.
It was a small display so only 2 customer could stand side by side.

I went stood beside her .
ME: Where is the shop keeper?
IB8: Down there , checking something.
ME: aaha.. (Me Smiling) . Suggest me something to by for my sister.
IB8: How old is she?
ME: 3 years elder to me.
You know its so confusing , i caught my head to signify confusion.
IB8: Hmm.. (She was Smiling)
Try some bag or something.
ME: I dont know.
IB8: Whats your budget/
ME: 3k
IB8: Try Mango , its a good shop.
ME: ya maybe i can look into it.

Than the shopkeeper told her something. some price.
She started , while crossing me said.
IB8: Best of Luck. (Still Smiling)

She might have thought what a confused guy but, you know what i learnt something. When you smile, people smile back and the conversation is so much more better.

Eye contact was ok with this lady but could have been much better.

Than met an hired gun.( Sales girl at mango)
Had a long conversation.
I smiled , initially she was serious but she smile backed.
My aim talking to an Sales girl is to open them up to talk about there life.
If i fail its not even an opening.
Thats why 1/2 or .5

hey just read your journal.
been gaming in mumbai.....since past few months.you are on india LAIR as well rgth???

you seem to be opening sets well by indirect but not able to take the interaction further.I suggest start inserting cold-reads after the opener.....as i saw lot of ur interactions in your journal could be taken further just by simply inserting a cold read.

keep PIMPING...

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@drub1 : Hi! buddy,
Ya , i am in india LAIR too under the same name.
Under what name are you in India LAIR.
Can you throw in some examples. It would be much clearer that way

DAY 13

Opened only one set and a direction set( asking for direction basically lol)

1st IB6 at SubWay:
We both ordering a subway.
Wasn my confidant best , but i asked her.

ME: hey, what sauce are good.
IB6: I dont know, ask the counter guy he might help.

I asked the person about sauce , asked him to make it spicy.
Saw her sitting alone. If not for PUA, i would not even approach her.
I was feeling afraid.
But i waited a while, she was talking on phone.
Once she was done, walked straight to her and

ME:Hey can i join you.
IB6: Ya sure.
ME: How come you are alone?
IB6: I am used to it.
ME: Friends aint here.
She was constantly talking on phone or messaging.
I reallised she might be uncomfortable.
ME: Hey, If you not comfortable ill can shift
IB6: no no. (she actually was)
ME : I dont like to eat alone. (Smiling)
IB6: She Smiled back

For the rest 15 min , while we were eating,
Asked her about bangalore and all.
I realised half way through she was married.
Dint want to ask the number.


What i learned:
1) Have guts to ask girls to join them. (They are bored eating alone anyways)
2) Eye contact is important.
3) Could have made interaction more interesting. Maybe cold reading or some routine.
4) I am still not grt making cocky and funny statement. But i realised that when you laugh than people around you respond more positively and laugh back .
5) Watching her Body language is also imp.

I had 2 more long discussion One with HB7(American) and IB7(in Landmark)
Coming Next..

Roll your comments.

u`r doin good bro...
I am AFC and thinkin of do the same thread like U, it`s a good inducment for keeping the line on becomeing PUA

Try to stay in the set until the girl tells you to 'fuck off' or she leaves. This might be a little difficult when you are standing but it should be easier when you both are sitting at the same table. See, Indian girls are not used to being spoken to by a stranger. And as they are out of their comfort zone when they are talking to you, they might be a little uncomfortable, its natural. But that doesn't mean she wants you to leave. Let her figure out why you should get the hell out of that place, you don't do it for her.

Make sense?

Apart from that you are doing well

I Encourage you to start a journal too, ill surely follow it .
Ill surely follow it.

That does make sense.
Next time ill push it forward.

DAY 14:
Did 2 beautiful sarges today (friday)

The 1st one was an HB7 from America
I was waiting in the lounge of Apollo Clinic(hospital) waiting for my blood test.
Saw a beautiful girl . She seemed a bit confused.
I was really nervous and the 1st time i opened my mouth to talk to her she didn't even hear my voice.

2nd attempt
ME: Hi! Waiting for consultation.
HB7: ya mine at 1(12.35 now)
ME: oh great. So what are you for.
HB7 : to visit dermatologist.
ME: Are you a transfer student.
HB7: ya , studying in christ college.

And than we went on , i asked about how she feels being here in India and all.

Initially both of are legs were crossed.
Than i realised she started emulating my poster.
Half way through i started smiling. And she opened up a little more.
We had a conversation for 25 min or so,
Asked her many things.
But dint have the balls to # close. Damn opportunity missed.



2nd one was An IB7(IndianBabe):
Met her at a book store in a mall,
She was standing in the romantic section.
I walked beside her and while checking the book asked her.

ME: Hi! Can you suggest me a good romantic book for a close friend of mine. Its her birthday and i don't know what to give.
(I did jerk a bit and some books Fell off, calmly went down and collected and kept it)
IB7: I don't know much about it.
I realised and started to smile, and she was also slightly smiling.
ME: you don't read novels.
IB7: I do , you can try this one.
ME: BTW, what should i give her.
IB7: Maybe buy her some chocolates. or bags. Whats your budget
ME: 3k .
IB7: Than buy her a bag or chocolates. Theres a good shop down in ground floor of imported chocolates.
ME: What would you like to have as a gift ?
IB7: Me Chocolates.
ME: Ok , maybe i can gift you some chocolates the next time we meet. Smiling to make it sound playful.
IB7 : No thanks i dont need it.She became a bit nervous here.
We disscussed a little more and than she moved on.



Lessons Learned:
1) Smile and people will find you friendly and playful and open up.(until she is an old hag)
2) Could have pushed for # close.
3) make a card to distribute in case people ask for your contact deltail.
4) Continue with Sarging whereever you can.

i just read this entire thread.

dude, you've used the same opener like ten thousand times "Hey, can you suggest .... blah blah blah ?"

at some point it's got to start seeming monotonous in your own mind, if it seems like a broken record to you, how do you suppose it sounds to women?

can't you come up with something other than "hey, can you suggest a gift for my niece?" over and over and over and over...lol

i don't mean to crap on your parade, because at least you are out there trying, but i don't even sarge and i'm not that monotonous with girls. i just walk up to girls and start a conversation...no plan...no routine...just say whatever i'm thinking of and start talking.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

hahahahahaha, ya i know, i have got used to it. Maybe i am taking it easy, not pushing my brain.
I know, and ill come up with some innovative openers, or just go with a blank mind before entering a set.
Dont mind the next Post though (it was Due), and was before i realised it .

DAY 15:

Weekend Sarge

Saturday :

Dint have much time to sarge , did only 2 and a 1/2 set.
2 single set and a hire gun.

For the 1st set , it was just asking for direction .
Nothing much here to right about.
Next i went to a bookstore in a mall. Saw a IB9 in the children Books section.
Went beside her. Looking for books.

Me: HI!
IB: HI!
ME: Need to buy something for my 10 year old nephew.
And i really dont know what to take.
I smiled
IB: I really dont know. ( she opened up)
Try the other section , that seems to have quite a few book from age 7-12
ME: How come you are here in this section?
Are you a boring teacher or something (smiling) ?
Teachers are generally here.
IB: Smiling No no. I was just looking around.
Nothing much after that , but i realised she opened up as i smiled and got my joke about teacher.

Mission Smiling Hired Gun :
Than before leaving the mall , entered Westside (cloth store) and saw a beautiful
Hiredgun (IB7) in cosmetic section. My intenstion was to get her to smile back .
Went in with a smile.
Me: Want to gift something to a close friend of mine. Can you suggest me a something good .
IB: She was all serious, Try this cosmetic range , shell like it and its usefull in the long run.
ME: Do you think it would be a good birthday gift.
IB: It would be useful though. (Still Serious)
Tried a couple of time more i continuosly smiling. Her frame was so strong she
Broke my frame . I ejected.

Report:
Mission Failed.



Sunday :
Did 5 or 6 sets
Most of them were direction and and cloth suggestion etc etc.
Nothing much today.
Have been thinking about what Mack 2.0 said :
Things are getting repetative.

Target :
So from now on, ill just enter a set and think what to do next.
And push For #close , as many time as possible.

there u go bro these r a few i have field tested.many more out there but haven't tested them.

"You hate it when somebody orders you around. If you want to do something, you will do it, even if everybody else disagrees with it,u make ur own decisions,don't u???"

"there is one aspect of you that very few people know. Even though you show this tough-girl attitude on the outside, inside you’re a soft little butterfly. In fact, if somebody requests you to do something pyaar se, you will do anything they ask you to do. All you want is to be treated with love. But few people understand you.”

"Hmmm....so you love bad boys. But you’re disappointed that there are so few of them around"(i use this when she is giving lot of attitude)

"sometimes....You have a tendency to be very....very....critical of yourself"

"There are times when you are very energetic and outgoing, and other times you just like to chill"

"I bet a lot of people think you are really mature, but l know better.
I can tell from (say eyes... or because of some expression she makes)
that you are really just a little girI"


"You have such a little girl's smile; it is so innocent but m sure there is a part you that is very mischievous ",u can launch into qualification...after these like" r u adventerous???" n so on...

ofcourse these r just words.....make sure u make them really intriguing.

basically i start these with,"hey,i have an intuition about u"....normally they listen as if i am telling something really important.you can launch them staright away as well.
can be used no matter wht ur opener(askin for direction,situational or opinion).

if they don't respond,always remember.............NEXT SET.............

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Damn i feel like a pig.

Somewhere down the lane i wanted to leave PUA and be some good damn nice guy falling in love again. Damn i wanted the be with her again. Fucking bloody she hates me now.I hereby swear ill become a great PUA and see to that , nobody , bloody hurts me like this. Ill choose.
Sorry for the Rant.


I dont hate people. i want to love all.
Guys Thanks for being with me.

After the break down ,

I am Back and Happy i had the breakdown,
Cause i am more focus now than ever.
Happy that i am clear now.

Break Downs helps , we learn a lot.


From now on il be more focused

My Goal Revised is :
Being a great PUA and
also teaching PUA Skills to as many People as i can

Happy Sarging All.

DAY 16:
Saturday i sarged from 16.30 to 20.15 .
Opened around 6-8 sets .

Did 3 at a bookstore in the Mall.

1st : IB7 A married lady :
She was standing right beside me in Top 50 Book Section
I picked up a book "Connecting the dots" and asked her over the shoulders.

Me: Hi! have you read this book.
IB: no , are you from brits international(some leadership marketing company)
Me: no. i have an startup.
than she left....
bought her husband back and introduced him to me... WTF


2nd IB8:
i was in the same section with the same book
me: hey have you read this book?
how is it,?
Eye contact was pathetic

Feeling sleepy will complete tomorrow