FR#31 (First FR in months)
April.16.2011
Location: Frat Party

Wow this is weird. I have not written a Field Report in about 8 month since I have been in a relationship for the majority of that time; therefore, I did not want to discuss my relationship on the forum. However, I have been single for the last few weeks and I have no had 3 K-Closes in that time frame, but I still I haven't had another F-Close since I've been single again. Anyways, I've decided to finally post an FR after having an interesting experience at a Frat Party this past Saturday night.

So I was at a frat party at a major college in the South and I had never been to a frat party before. I go to school in the north, but I am down in the southern US visiting some friends who go to school down here. They got me an invitation to this frat party, so I felt it would be great for getting me back into the game.

So as soon as we get to the party I just instaneously go into my former gaming mode that I so dearly missed. I started off just being very social with all the guys in the frat as I tried not to step on anyone's toes. The one weird thing that was very noticeable and different about guys who to school in the south is that they dress like freaking preppies. Every single person was wearing a polo or button-down shirt with khaki pants or shorts, and boat shoes or flip flops to top it off. If I caught myself in that type of attire I'd have to kick my own ass. My friends advised me against wearing my normal going out clothes which includes a graphic t-shirt, expensive jeans, and a pair of Nikes, because they said there would be a possibility of me not getting in the party if I dressed like that. So I just went with expensive jeans, nikes, and a polo.

Anyways, for the first little bit of the party I was basically just feeling everything out. I was in all sorts of sets and I was getting back into my old usual C+F routines for running game, but I hadn't found myself a target yet. That was until I saw her.

I was in a mixed 4-set I think, when I turned around and was just observing my surroundings. I saw this girl in the middle of the backyard (the party was all outside of the frat house) who seemed to be looking for her friends. She was drop dead beautiful. Like not a bombshell. But just a classic brunette beauty, HB8.5. There was something that just immediately drew me to her though. I had to approach her. So I decided to leave my set to open her but she turned around (not noticing my approach) and went to the other side of the house. But I said to myself, "she is my target. This is the girl I am going to pickup tonight." And I had never been so strong in my convictions before. I just knew I was going to get this girl.

So I worked my way over to the other side of the frat house where a band was playing. A bunch of people were dancing around the stage, and I noticed the brunette HB8.5 just dancing with a couple of friends. I didn't even hesitate as my convictions were strong. So I opened the set saying, "you guys have to fist bump to this music, like jersey shore style." Doing any sort of routine or opener that is related to jersey shore has never failed me before and it worked again this time. I opened the set successfully, and I quickly found myself isolated with this girl. We basically just talked for a bit and I was just pumping out the DHVs and C+F. It was clear that she was attracted to me, and this was only reassured when my friends went over and opened us. Thats when I overheard her tell one of my friends that she thinks Im really cute.

Anyways, after some solid qualifying, I isolated her again to a little ledge to sit on and I pulled the old mystery K-Close routine, "do you want to kiss me?" and she said, "yes" which is the best answer of them all. So we made out, which was awesome. Then after that I bounced her out of the party and was hoping that we would go back to her dorm room. Unfortunately, this was not the case as we walked around campus for a little bit and made out sporadically. But, I could tell that she was a real good girl and wasnt down for an ONS. Especially, since she knew that I was just visiting and was going to leave in the next few days. But at the end of the night I got the #-close and she told me to text her the next day. I knew that the likelihood of hooking up with her again was slim, but I was encouraged by the fact that our repoire was off the charts.

So the next day I texted her and she responded normally, but then after that she never texted me back on my 2nd text. I thought that was weird, but I was still hopeful that I would see her at the 2nd frat party last night. However, when I got to the 2nd party the next night, I didnt see her there, so I texted her and asked her if she was coming out. Then she said, "no i think im just going to stay in tonight" So I asked, "why?" but she never responded.

I kind've understood her since I dont go to school down here, but I was really encouraged by the fact that we got along so well and she was clearly attracted to me a lot. But that was not the case I guess. Anyways, at the party last night I saw one of her friends there and I asked her why the HB8.5 wasnt coming out tonight. And this girl responds with, "I told her to stay in tonight where she'll be safe." I could not believe what I just heard from that bitch. "where she'll be safe." What the fuck is that supposed to mean? Did I just get cockblocked by her friend. Unbelievable.

In the end, I believe I was a victim of circumstances. My best guess is that she didnt want to do anything more because I was going to leave in a few days anyways. I'm disappointed because I really did like this girl and I feel that we could've been something if I went to school down here, but it is what it is I guess. I'm just disturbed by what the friend said, whatta bitch. Nevertheless, I made one last ditch effort today to try and salvage anything, so I texted her something lighthearted but she didnt bite. Oh well, I gave it a shot atleast. Thats all I got for now. Im glad to be back on the forum. Does anyone have advice on how I could've handled this siutation better though? Like was there any other way possible to get a day-2 or was i just doomed from the start?

One thing that i do is screen girls in the beginning to see if they down for one night stands. This girl was a time waster. 60years of challenge describes these girls as the type that will talk and flirt with you but have no intention of sleeping with you. So fast elscalation screens out these type of girls from the horny ones. Anyway im sure you aware of the quote "blow me or blow me out" im curious why you didn't apply it since you are there for a couple of days. You should have tried to fuck her that first night and when you texted her why did you keep things light because you clearly just want to fuck nd nothing more. Anyway did you try to get other girls at the second party?

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Ya thats a good point. I should've applied that tactic, but at the time I was just so excited that I had hooked a girl of that quality. My mistake, but I'll know for the next week. Im still going to visit other places on my spring break this week.

Also, yes I did try and pickup at the second party but the problem was that we showed up at 1030 and had to get kicked out at midnight because the security decided to kick out all non-members of the frat for some reason. So there was nothing I could've done on that one.

But thanks for the feedback. I really appreciate it.