A hb9, that seemed to of fell in love with me instantly, from what it seemed to me anyway, kind of pissed me off last tuesday, she started talking to her ex again. This pissed me off and i had ago at her on the night, she was kind of stoned though and rubbed it in more, so i froze her out. About an hour ago she told me she was sorry, i said what for and she said for being a twat. I knew freezing her out would work but i don't have a clue on what to say to her now and what to do about it.

Im planning to go back to her, but im obviously not going to suddenly jump into her arms, i need to lay it out so she wont do it again, but i have no clue how to do this. So advice on what to do from now on?

Her not doing it again depends on her feelings built for you. Just verbalizing it won't work. I'm saying to forget about laying it down and just escalate, spend time with her doing romantic things and basically get her to fall in love with you. She'll then naturally stop talking about her ex.

hmm i was thinking of meeting her and escalating, but showing that im in control of everything, and i mean everything. Her ex has gone, i dont think she was talking to him that way but i was still pissed off so i froze her out. She seemed like she built a lot of feelings for me, but i just dont want to look like a dick. Thanks for the advice though, hopefully should go down.