I find the only way I can guarantee I can approach is to have a goal of a kiss, or a grope or whatever and be in a sexual state and when I come on to her just with chat I get a back off look- but then their attitude changes just like that to a really attractive one and wonder that they want it- but challenge it- then like it but by which point my resolve of being confident and certain of myself evaporates! I know women are emotionally driven but this shit doesn't make sense! lol

Women LIVE in the realm of emotion.

It's a different world than ours.

They aren't cowards, they are just an entirely different animal.

Best to recognize that as soon as possible.

You know all those things that make you a "man" (you know the things I am talking about), well, they don't have those things.

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I sort of think it's the opposite. Women are a lot like men. What "defines" a man is actually a fantasy just like women "do not want sex". How can we say only women live in the realm of emotion when you have Chris Brown beating up Rihanna and many other examples? The thing is that men have that "mentality" of being men which they consciously try to keep up but when something hits hard enough, they break down just like women.

No. It's scientifically proven time and time again in studies, women are more emotional than men MORE of the time. I didn't say that men don't have emotions. That would be stupid to say.

I said what dozens of experts have maintained after careful study for decades and decades, women LIVE in emotions, men LIVE in logic...the majority of their lives.

It's not conjecture. But you can disagree if you so choose.

Now, how about to the original question asked, instead of countering what I've said?

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Ok, so men are less emotional than women. But what does that mean? Does it mean that we voluntarily try to be less emotional or we are biologically programmed to be less emotional? And the question doesn't really matter to me, the tangent you were going off on is interesting.

I am interested in this.

I am a man but I am too emotional I think anyways. I dont think on logic especially when it comes to girls. I dont care if this girl had the biggest tits, roundest ass and the prettiest face, its how I "feel" around her and how I make her "feel". I dont have a criteria. I dont go crying etc but im sensitive to peoples emotions/feelings and to a certain extent im a sensitive guy.

Does this make me a girl? maybe, I dont know.

Like tonight for example, there is this girl i liked. I called her, she didnt answer. she called me I didnt answer. I called her after and we spoke and said she was about to have dinner and ill call you in a bit. She rang me just now, but I dont feel like talking to her NOW. I did an hour ago but not NOW. I dont feel like, but head is telling me to call her cos i like her.